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Entrepreneur Couple Q&A with Tatiana & Stefan James

Published on: December 2 2022 by Tatiana James

Entrepreneur Couple Q&A with Tatiana & Stefan James

Entrepreneur Couple Q&A with Tatiana & Stefan James

hey everyone welcome back i'm tatiana
and i'm joined today by stefan from
project life mastery
and we are going to do something a
little bit more fun today we're going to
be doing a q a
so we have asked all of our viewers on
instagram and elsewhere to submit their
questions what do you guys want to know
about us
anything that you've wanted to know that
we haven't spoken about before not
business related just
personal stuff and we have put all these
questions in this hat
and we're going to be picking them at
random and answering them for you today
so sit back and enjoy
yeah we thought it'd be just a fun way
for you guys to get to know us a little
bit you know usually
our channels we tok about serious
topics business
entrepreneurship investing money um but
maybe
some of you are interested in us and
getting to know the quirky things about
us
or um our personalities our lives
whatever it might be
so we put it out there on instagram and
these are some of the questions we got
we got a lot
yeah we did get a lot we picked i
thought would be the best some of the
best ones
um and then we're gonna maybe do another
one if you guys want to know more so
do you want to start first okay all
right
what's something you're scared of
going right to the uh you know those
ones
i'd say one of them there's actually
quite a few things but i say one of the
biggest one
that has always been a constant for me
is i'm afraid of
settling in my life i'm afraid of living
my life
less than what i'm truly capable of i'm
afraid of coming to the end of my life
feeling like i missed out on what life
has to offer i feel like i missed out on
my potential that my
potential was still intact and so for me
that's something that
that that creates fear for me um and i
think that that there's many different
things i can go from that like i'm
afraid
of uh struggling again financially in my
life because i've been there and i never
want to go back and i think that
motivates
me to take care of our finances i'm
afraid of getting cancer or heart
disease that terrifies me and so i
you know that that motivates me to take
good care of my health i'm afraid of
losing you i'm afraid of
being in a relationship with no passion
no love no intimacy and that motivates
me to
try to be the best i can for you in our
relationship and
to improve myself so i'd say you know
it's
that's really i think one of my deepest
fears um that i'd have is
um just not maximizing who i am as a
human being
i love that so much better than mine
mine is i'm scared of the boogeyman
yeah and i'm afraid of you know little
things like that too
but well i mean for me like i i don't
like scary movies i'm the type of person
who just like
if anything's realistik then if i watch
a scary movie then i go to bed at night
i start dreaming about it and i'll have
those dreams for weeks so i avoid scary
movies but actually
stefan you can attest this i've watched
three scary movies this
month in october recently that
traumatized me when i was a kid
and i was like it's not scary at all
it's like too obvious you know
i i need something that's realistik like
someone that could like i'm walking down
the street and then they come and they
pull me
in the alley and you know like that
that's what's scary she does have some
fear i'd say another thing
we're both i'd say afraid of heights and
not i mean i've been skydiving before
and i've done things like that and
you're willing to do
those things but it's still like scary
if we're too close to like a balcony or
something like that we might get a
little bit nervous
yeah there's a time where we try to you
try to take me ziplining for my birthday
in whistler and i was like nope don't
want to do it
i bought him these like nice zip lining
experience the best experience the
highest you know the most expensive
package at whistler
i drive him all the way to whistler it's
like a two-hour drive and then we get
there and then he's like nope not doing
it
we have to do that so there's cases like
that which i think as i've gotten older
i value my life more versus when i was
younger as like skydiving and things
like that a bit more yeah
okay um is it my turn uh yeah you go
okay
uh let's see this one
what are you focused on most right now
in your life
your biggest goal or focus yeah um
well you know what i would say business
is definitely secondary um i'd say i'm
focused right now just on my
relationship
i'm really focused on learning as much
as i can
and trying to be the best partner for
you trying to grow personally
because the more i grow as an individual
the better i show up for everyone in my
circle
you included and just learning like you
know
i'm stuck with you for life so we want
to make this the best it possibly can be
and it's great we have an amazing
relationship but there's always another
level and i always want to be
working towards that and i know that if
i'm not focused on that then that's
going to get neglected
and that's what happens in a lot of
long-term relationships we've been
together six years and we're still
very passionate and loving and i know
people are together 10 years
20 years and that can fade and that's
because you're not putting attention to
into it when you're just getting you
know you're just getting to know someone
you're in that honeymoon phase you're
doing all you can you're putting so much
effort into your relationship
and that's why it thrives but then once
you're in a committed relationship all
of a sudden you're like well
we've got each other we're married i
don't have to like look good anymore you
know i don't have to put an
effort into like setting up dates but
like that's why the relationships
dwindle and the
end if you do what you did in the
beginning then there will be no end and
so i'm taking it
upon myself as my responsibility we each
have
the responsibility in a relationship but
i want to make sure i'm doing my part
and so
that's kind of my focus right now
very lucky and you know for me um and
just just to that point to
like you're reading a book called
attached great relationship book but
it's very easy i find for both of us to
like just to be too focused in business
because business is something that you
have more control over it's something
that
you're good at right and and you put
your focus your attention your business
and we always kind of have to like
remind ourselves we both just tok about
this like
like we're set for business like we're
good we overachieve in that area
let's focus on the harder areas of life
the ones that people avoid the ones
that people are so afraid to focus on
because you have to be more vulnerable
and open up but
really brings the greatest returns so
that is something for sure yeah it's
tough to be
like you need to be a strong person to
be vulnerable yeah you need to be very
courageous and a lot of people don't
want to face
the challenges in their relationship
they don't they want to distract
themselves with other things but it's
like this
is it like you got to make this work if
you want to have a great life
you know focus that energy on your
relationship because you're with that
person for so many years and they are
going to impact
the quality of your life for sure yeah
the most important decision you make is
who you spend it with and so
that's um yeah it's just one of the most
important things for me i'd say the
biggest focus
uh is my self-care
and uh you know just my my well-being um
for me like i've done a video on this
and shared how um
one of the struggles that i've had is
over stimulation of dopamine
and i did a video on like a dopamine
detox and so for me i've kind of had
tendencies in the past
like my first addiction was video games
and
uh that was like an overstimulation of
dopamine i used to skip school to play
video games
some cases like 16 hours a day um
and then i i kind of like treated that
addiction for the addiction of
like success absolutely sorry guys he
was just recently on dr phil
helping a young boy who was dealing with
video game addiction
and he was giving him his advice and
he's going to be mentoring him which is
yeah
that episode i think will be out
november december but
um you know anyways like addiction like
even like the the dopamine over
stimulation to tiknology
social media youtube uh video games
success and things like that and you
know pornography in my past
a variety of those things that over
stimulate dopamine levels
and what i've learned from that was like
a really big eye opener for me because
when you over stimulate that it's almost
like kind of like having sugar like
sugar gives you a great boost it gives
you a lot of pleasure
but if you over if you have sugar every
day then what happens is
you end up um like if you can't eat a
salad like you can't enjoy
vegetables and just like simple things
like that because your taste buds and
everything have changed
to being used to having sugar and that's
kind of what it is when you over
stimulate the dopamine levels
so for me what i've been working on is
lowering that and focusing on my
well-being and journaling and going out
in nature
and exercise and my health and and my
mental my emotional health
a relationship like all of those things
for me are the most
are such important things as well as
like spirituality and god and prayer and
meditation that just like resets the
brain so for for me it's like spending
less time in front of screens and
devices
uh because i spent so much time to like
get to where i'm at and even in my
business
on screens and devices and that's like
for me that
that resets my brain and allows me to
kind of even it out and
now experience higher levels of
happiness and joy and
things like that yeah and i have so much
respect for you for
making that your primary focus because
that's not really rewarded right that's
something that
you personally will reap the rewards of
but in society like you're not making
more
money you're not getting rewarded by
other people like the way in your
business with business
it is very highly rewarded success those
things are highly rewarded but this is
something that you kind of do behind
closed doors
and to make it your focus means that
you're taking time away from working on
your business and other things
that you can uh you know reap more
benefits from
externally so i really respect you for
doing that you know i don't we don't
spend much time on social media or
things like that at all anymore so
yeah it's been great great okay wow two
questions
and nine minutes in we like to tok
don't we
do you speak any other languages okay
this is a short question answer
i speak english i speak french i speak
french fluently although i haven't used
french
in years i went i studied french
in elementary school high school and in
university
and i also speak portuguese and spanish
but not fluently
i get by spanish is pretty good i depend
on her a lot when we're in panama and
latin american countries spanish i
learned just from living
in panama and just like having to figure
out how do i get here and there and tok
to people
and portuguese i learned because most of
my family lives in brazil and i used to
go there every single year
when i was young as a kid the family we
would go there for christmas time and i
would just pick up on portuguese hearing
everyone speaking portuguese around me
yeah and for me just english i made some
attempts to learn
uh spanish when we're in panama hired a
teacher for that
didn't stik with it at a certain point
after like
you know doing it for like a month or
two i was like it's gonna take another
year
and i'd much rather put this time energy
and focus into like
learning and mastering other parts of my
life that i just felt like i'd get a
better return
of like putting that into my well-being
and my health and my spirituality and
reading books
things like that so um i didn't you know
really see us
see me having that much benefit
practikal use of that long term and i
had you all ready to kind of do that
communication for us so
yeah yeah okay is it my turn okay
what's the one thing you both completely
disagree on
um honestly there's not really much
there's not really
anything i can really think of i think
that one of the greatest
parts of our relationship is that we're
in like so much alignment
in terms of our values our beliefs our
vision
uh what we want for for our lives and
everything and it's kind of spooky
like we think the same thoughts and
finish each other's sentences which is
kind of weird
um i remember one time we went to a tony
robbins seminar date with destiny
and we were sitting away from each other
because the event they there's like a
couple thousand people there they split
you up
and later like in the evening time we
see each other and discuss the day
and one of the the parts of the um
there's a few parts of the seminar but
one is like determining your core life
values
as well as your vision and some call
your primary question
and then when we when we would do that
and then we'd come afterwards and share
we had the exact same primary question
we had like almost the exact same values
like it's pretty insane how similar that
we are um so i think that's a great
thing
but it's also nice to have some like
differences
and things like that too but at least
not in the big thing so
i i would say that you know the reason
that we don't have any major
disagreements that was the question like
we have small disagreements we're not
like twins we
we we see the world a little bit
differently and so in the small things
we may not agree on certain things but
for anything
major we always come to agreement
because i think that's one of the
reasons why our relationship is
so smooth sailing and how come
it's just easy our relationship and the
reason is because we're always willing
to adapt and be flexible and if
i have an opinion you will hear me out
if you have an opinion i will hear you
out we will
give each other the space to respect
each other and respect each other's
opinion and then come to an agreement
so we usually don't have any major
disagreements we never fight
we never raise our voices at each other
we have very high standards when it
comes to that we both
came from families that were our parents
were always arguing there was always
yelling going on
sometimes physical violence and we
both knew that when we were going to
meet the person that we're going to
spend the rest of our lives with
we have to make it a must and a priority
and we have to make sure we set the bar
high and we will not accept fighting
and disrespecting each other and raising
our voices and like behaving in the way
that our parents behave that
really hurt the relationship and so we
kind of learn from our parents what not
to do
yeah and i think we just both have we
don't have a fixed mindset we have a
growth mindset
and when two people have a growth
mindset you're always open to
the other perspective and really
pursuing the highest the highest level
of truth the highest
level of belief that that really serves
us and others the best way and so
if if you you know you or myself are
attached to a certain viewpoint or a
belief system
but perhaps the other person has a more
empowering or even like a better way of
looking at it
because we both have a growth mindset
we're both willing to look at that
and i'm willing to change my beliefs or
my habit or my way of being
and you are as well so we're willing to
compromise and to change
something that we're so attached to to
let that go if
it if it provides or leads to something
better for both of us and i think we
also look at
like for me at least like i'm not
interested in being right
i'm interested in being happy and being
in love so i'll let go of a viewpoint
i'm like you know what
it doesn't matter who's right or wrong
like let's who cares about that that's
just that's
that's like low consciousness let's
transcend that into like
if you're happy i'm happy and vice versa
because we're a unit together and we
want to both
pursue whatever like if there's
something that you really want to do
it's going to make you happy and it's
going to be at an inconvenience for me
i'm willing to let go
of my comfort or my belief in something
that can help you
because that will help me at the end of
the day too yeah because ultimately we
are a unit we are a team we are partners
and you know we want to support each
other and i think one of the key
that the found the basic principles that
we always
fall back on is i know that your intent
is pure
you know that my intent is pure so
although sometimes we may
have something to say about someone you
know i might point something out to him
that
may be uncomfortable for him to hear but
he's open to hearing it because he knows
that i'm not out there to
maliciously attack him or to hurt him he
knows that i'm always trying to look out
for him
for what's best for him i always want
what's best for him
so when we have that as the basis of our
relationship
we're able to have really constructive
conversations
and the disagreements that we have end
up being extremely constructive and
powerful
and end up actually helping us grow our
relationship for sure
all right your turn
got some good relationship advice in
this video too
we tok a lot too we have a lot of deep
conversations this is yeah that is
the thing we do tok like this and and
have these types of conversations
a lot like every day okay what's
something you struggle with right now in
your life
hmm ooh good question
do you know you can go first um i'd say
for me like
uh my work and my business consumes me
too much
that's probably mine too yeah like i'd
say i love my business
and i love doing what i do but there's
also a lot of
responsibilities and pressures and
stresses that can come with that too
and it kind of sounds like a stupid like
this is
not a problem like this is like a high
quality problem like i don't
like even toking about it because i
don't want to like sound like i'm
complaining
but it's like almost like there's so
many opportunities that come up
opportunities to meet this person to do
this promotion or this
opportunity can lead to more money or a
way to grow the business
that sometimes what that does even
though that's great it can keep me
it's like a vacuum it sucks me there's
like the demands of the business where
like the squeaky
wheel gets the grease like it's always
pulling me
and i need to always discipline myself
and be like no like
this is how much i'm willing to give to
my business but
this is more important like god is most
important you are most important
my what my self development's most
important um
relationships my social life all those
things so those ones
my business is easy like my business
will suck me
in because there's emails and there's
messages and there's questions from you
guys and
urgencies but i have to cut off the
urgencies and be like no i'm not willing
to
to work as much as i did before because
um
that path doesn't lead me to the vision
that i have and so
that's always a struggle for me i'd say
and even having a team
having like you know 15 16 whatever
people that work for me
and then providing work for them and you
know being being the leader of them and
being involved with that while also at
the same time
you know creating that life balance and
the lifestyle that i want
yeah i would say for me um it is trying
to
figure out like what do i want my life
to look like on a day-to-day basis
um because i we're here right now in
hawaii we are
steps away from the beach we have a
gorgeous view
and i thought that coming here like i
thought i would be on the beach every
day we paid a premium price for this
apartment so that i could go to the
beach every single day and i've been
like a few times
and it's i i find myself working i i
don't know if i'm a workaholic i love
what i do
and again i do feel bad saying that
because i just did a call the other day
with my family
in brazil and they're really struggling
right now they don't have jobs they
haven't had a job since
covid they've been laid off financially
like they want to work so for me to be
in the position where i have
too much work like they're that that's
they're envious of that they
wish they had that opportunity and so i
i think i'm blessed to be able to work
i'm blessed to be able to have
opportunities
to earn an income um but i'm trying to
figure out like in terms of
like this balance that i want to have
i'm trying to figure out
how to create that yeah yeah yeah i
agree
great questions all right oh we are
coming up on 20 minutes here and we've
we've got a whole hat fill okay
oh do you want kids if so how many
do you want me to answer okay so we
definitely do want kids we're actually
very much looking forward to that we
were supposed to get married
this year and because of covid we had to
postpone our wedding but our original
plans was to get married and then start
trying to have kids by this time you
know we were expecting to
be pregnant yeah but um so we
yeah life happens and things could be
far worse so um
we have delayed those plans so next year
we are planning to
start that up again after the wedding
and um
we are looking to have two to three kids
yeah yeah and i like i'm really excited
for that too
like and and for us like i'm much older
than tatiana um
i'm 34 you're 26. and i think that's
been that's worked out really well
because
um when we first met like you didn't
we've been over
six years now like there was no urgency
to have kids and so for tatiana
and myself like we're both in a phase
like hey let's travel let's build a
business
let's let's improve ourselves and all of
that and
um you know for me like i'm i'm cool you
know having kids now around this age
that was kind of always my vision
and for you too i think you're like at a
perfect age that you've wanted to be in
to also
start to have kids too so i think that's
been great because we didn't have that
urgency and we were able to experience
so much like
build our businesses and all that and
for both of us one thing that was always
important is we always want to make sure
that we're set economically before
having kids and starting a family so
we're both like super ready for it now
and just looking forward to it
um can't wait so we're looking to settle
down by a house you know by house and
kind of you know get a great community
and things like that too
um as we transition today yeah i'm
looking forward to meeting a little
stefan and a little tatiana like i want
to see what they look like and it's cool
to be able to teach them all these
things that we've learned and see what
happens and sometimes your kids end up
being the total opposite of you
if you're overbearing parents or they
start to become like you so it's just
interesting to see it's like a magical
experience to create a little bit it'll
be our biggest challenge yet
we're looking forward to okay um what's
your favorite video game
okay i'll answer this i used to be
addicted to video games i do play
occasionally
um and i'd say the game that i do like
is nba 2k
so i'm a huge basketball fan i'm a huge
lebron james fan
uh the lakers right now is my team
because of lebron james going to the
lakers
so nba 2k that's the game that i enjoy
the most
um play for a little bit but i kind of
get it out of my system
and don't really play that often but um
yeah i'd say that's the game that i
would enjoy the most
yeah and for me it's super mario bros
i can't even say it without laughing
because i'm so bad
playing video games like me and so she's
not it's
painful for him to play with i can be a
little bit frustrating playing with her
sometimes but
he can go through like all the levels
without dying and i have to
like i need like multiple continues
before i can get through a level
so it is a lot of fun yeah it's super
fun i love it
yeah especially with a little bit of
wine can be
even more fun okay what's your favorite
past about
part of your job part about your job
business okay
what's my favorite part about my job
about what you do about what i do um
well i love just the ability to create
to be able to have an idea for something
do my research and then
take action with it and then see it come
to fruition like that's what i loved
about the physical products business
to be able to have an idea even like
packaging like to draw out packaging
and then give it to a graphics designer
and then see it printed and looking
amazing and i'm like it's just so cool
to be able to create something that
other people want and other people see
value in
and that's the beauty about business you
don't make money in business unless you
are adding
value to someone else right someone in
order for someone to buy your product or
your service they need to see
that it's worth the money that they're
spending on it or paying you they need
to think that it's worth
that value or more before they're going
to give you their hard or
earned dollars so you're exchanging
value in the form of currency for value
in the form of product or service
so i love that idea and i also love the
idea that i can just grow like the more
i grow as a person the more i can just
share with you guys and you know the
more i learn about business like
everything on my
my youtube channel is just what i learn
through business it's just what i'm
learning through experience and then i
just share it with other people and it's
so cool because it motivates me to
continue to grow
not just in business but in other areas
of my life because i know that i can
share these powerful learnings with
other people it can help
them in their lives as well yeah i was
going to say this a similar thing
just how um like what i do forces me to
grow so it's like my job i think i have
the best job because
my job is to improve myself my job is to
grow and the more that i grow the more
that i have to give the more that i have
to share
so um i don't know if i would be who i
am today if i didn't have project life
mastery because project life mastery
and you guys being accountable to you
guys forces me to come up with new ideas
of content but at the end of the day
i've got to improve myself
and so like it's cool the fact that the
books that we read the people that we
meet the seminars the events we go to
the courses that we go through
not only benefit us on a personal level
but also makes us more money
and it's kind of like wow we make money
doing this like we actually
do this for a living like how cool is
that so i've always kind of said i have
a hobby that i get paid for
and even just like coming up you know we
got like so many events that we're going
to we're going to the david data event
the tony robbins events we're
biocybernaut
and in sedona uh ayahuasca retreat in
costa rica like we got all these things
lined up
and sometimes too like we get cool perks
like we meet awesome people like
extraordinary human beings
that we get access to to interview or
can collaborate with these companies and
sometimes
these like companies give us stuff for
free too like get access to
things like that that we wouldn't
normally be able to get access to so
it's like we benefit on a personal level
and then you guys benefit from it
hopefully just by
seeing us grow and also hearing the
things that we learn that we can share
and give to you guys and we ultimately
make more money as our business grows
anyway so totally it's really cool
yeah so what do you think should we keep
going or should we i say we keep
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uh okay what's one thing that you can't
live without uh okay i'll be quick
i'd say i'd say like my my computer like
honestly i just think my computer is
like so incredible to have this device
that
i can i can make money from it i can
impact people's lives i can learn on it
i can invest on it like my life
is through it and it's amazing all of
that what it provides but at the same
time like
i proactively try to use it as a tool
and not like use it just to
aimlessly consume things and get
addicted to it at the same time but i'd
say like that's
the device uh my computer is just like
the most miraculous thing in the world
yeah i guess i'll do the same because
it's it is a very important
piece if you think about it that's where
we spend most for a lot our phone or
computer like a big part of our business
has run through that what is one of your
guilty pleasures
guilty pleasures guilty pleasures okay
well
i love chocolate i love chocolate
the dark chocolate the good chocolate i
used to um
my dad uh he loved buying chocolate bars
from the dollar store those
really like snickers and coffee crisps
and twix and those types
of things so when i was younger i used
to have a lot of that and ice cream too
my dad used to
go to superstore and buy the four liter
tubs of ice cream
they would come in either a chocolate
vanilla or napoletana which is a mix of
strawberry vanilla and chocolate
and we would sit together and we would
eat this four liter tub of ice cream
and you know it's like not like high
quality ice cream
but that's kind of how i grew up so i
always had a sweet tooth but as i've
gotten older
cared more about my body and my health
and i still love to indulge in chocolate
but i only get the high quality
chocolate i'll go for dark chocolate and
a high quality
kind but that's definitely my guilty
pleasure as well as some like coconut
ice cream
i don't do dairy so coconut ice cream is
my go-to
yeah i'd say i've got a sweet tooth as
well
for me ice cream for sure cheesecake
love cheesecake um yeah so things like
that once in a while
yeah okay how did stefan
propose well we have our uh proposal
video up on stefan's youtube channel
project life mastery
and it was the most romantik thing ever
i haven't watched in a long time i
should watch it just to bring back
memories
but yeah i just remember feeling like a
princess and
um i just remember you looked so
handsome
and i forget what you said exactly but
it was i remember it being very
sentimental
it was in santorini greece and i
surprised her and i had a video crew and
photographer
and just one of those romantik places in
the world um
so we filmed it and put it up on youtube
so i'll link we'll link that
for you guys below anyone's ever done
for me yeah i got a lot of views too so
i think a lot of people
agree with that yeah they're probably
all sending it to their boyfriends like
hey
do this is it my turn okay
uh are you religious uh so yes we both
are both
christians um that's something that's
you know the most important thing in our
lives and um
yeah i mean that's one thing that's just
important value that we both share
and we you know we've committed our life
to christ we actually
got baptized in the jordan river in um
in israel right and that was powerful i
even shared that i think on my youtube
channel and toked a little bit about
that
and that was really awesome yeah yeah it
was a beautiful experience i had grown
up
um catholic and uh
and then uh my mom converted to going to
like a baptist church
but you know as a if you grow up you
know you don't necessarily
believe or understand everything you're
just kind of embedded into what your
parents believe
but it wasn't until you know just a few
years ago that we
really started to learn for ourselves
and just realize how
amazing it is to have god in our lives
and jesus
and really ultimately like it just helps
us to become
better people and um we are always
continuously trying to improve
we're trying we are always you know
we're all sinners and we ask for
forgiveness for our sins but we're
always trying to be better
and we also humble ourselves to
to god on a daily basis and i believe
that you know everything in my life is
god's gift
and god can also take it away and i also
want to
make sure that i don't go in my ego
thinking that oh it's me who became
successful it's me who created this it's
me
you know the ego is is the danger zone
and so it's it's been extremely it's
been a beautiful experience
and there's nothing more incredible than
having
god to turn to you know when you're
alone or when you're going through
challenges and i believe that
god gives us challenges to bring us
closer to him because it's through those
challenges
when you you don't know what to do
anymore you've you tried everything that
you're like
god please just help me get through this
um
and i believe that it creates this
closer relationship
and um yeah it's just an incredible
experience so we we both are really
grateful for that
yeah i grew up greek orthodox and so i
was baptized as a baby but i didn't
i didn't know we weren't really like a
religious family we went to church on
christmas and
easter um but once you know i got
older and and went you know explored
different things and found found christ
or re-found christ and committed my life
to christ so many incredible benefits
i've gotten
and how i've lived my life and how both
of us are relationships so
yeah yeah yeah great question what do
you dislike most about your
job didn't we answer we ask what we like
that's what we don't like um i don't
know i love what i do i'm just so
grateful
like all the small things that kind of
bother me or that i'm challenged with
like i've had my fair share of
days where i'm just crying or just upset
and i'm just going through so much
stress
because of my business but ultimately
like when
i trade that for gratitude then i just
i'm just end up
being grateful for the business so i
don't know i don't think i have
something major i'd say for you like one
thing is
um well i think for both of us sometimes
just with what we do
you attract some people that are
negative or complain or judge you or
critikize
you and that comes with what we do so we
we get that but
um sometimes you just attract people
that
just kind of have like a very radical or
extreme belief system or say things that
are inappropriate
or um you know that you get you know
stereotype for
you know different things like that too
that but we don't really
like we don't we don't focus on that or
really consume that sort of stuff
much anymore but that is one piece of it
i'd say
that can be a little bit frustrating but
you know we do our best to try to help
people and share and give them
the best way that we can but you know
you can't make everybody happy you can't
please everybody and there's
always going to be some people with
every video that you put out people that
don't like it or make this comment or
that comment
so as long as we're helping people and
our intention is good and we're
focused on service and um the majority
of people enjoy it
that's all that matters at the end um so
yeah
okay what was your biggest purchase
for me it's not any i mean besides
investments but i mean the biggest
purchase i'd say was a car a sports car
um that was like 2016
the corvette stingray the new corvette
stingray
so that was the biggest one i think it
was like 70 grand or something like that
um i almost got mugged in that car
yeah i mean i'd say that would be it
otherwise there's not many things like
i'm not
that materialistik or anything i mean we
bought some designer stuff
you know here and there but for me i
don't um
yeah i'd say that's probably the biggest
one and for now but i know like once we
move and once we settle in
getting a house and cars things like
that will definitely be
yeah we've definitely saved a lot of
money um yeah i saved like
90 of my income so uh my biggest expense
was probably this watch this rolex
um this was just a treat a reward for
myself for a really big milestone
and it was just my biggest lump sum
purchase i've never spent that much
money in one
payment and um yeah it was it was
yeah it was just like i was very
hesitant because like it's just a watch
like that money can be used
for so many better things but i was also
like no this is
this is a symbol of something that i
achieved and i set this as a goal for
myself and i achieved it so this is the
reward
yeah what's your favorite food i feel
like we can already
answer this well i guess for me um
i'd say i'd say cheesecake is like my
favorite
dessert um one thing i do like about the
us is the cheesecake factory their
cheesecakes are pretty incredible
um i don't like them i find them way too
sweet they they are and so i
some of them are good others my my
favorite food
is sushi i love sushi
and especially if you go to like a high
quality sushi
there's a restaurant in vancouver that
we have when we're there
multiple times and they just chop the
rice so thin
it just melts in your mouth it's amazing
yeah
okay it's a miku i think
um how did you first meet and what was
your first date
you can answer that yeah so we first met
on tinder
okay so tinder the app i'm not sure if
you probably everybody knows that
um that's how we first met and then our
first date was in vancouver we met up
during the summer time
and uh we went to the beach and we sat
at the beach and had this really
incredible deep conversation
and um went for a long walk we went to
gravel islands
and we just basically like what was
supposed to be just like a meet up just
two people randomly meeting
ended up being like a soul connection
like a deep connection that
after that we just knew right away like
wow this is like an incredible person
we were both like just connected on so
many great things so yeah
that was a first year and for me i
remember i had
kind of just gotten out of a long-term
relation you too as well
we both had just gotten out of long-term
relationships for me i was um
in a three-year relationship and i was
like i don't want to i don't want to be
in a relationship with anyone the only
reason i met up with him was because i
was getting my brazilian passport done
in vancouver and i had four hours to
kill i was like i don't know anyone here
and i was just on the tinder app for fun
and then i messaged you
i messaged him and then he came
and he was coming back from the gym and
we just started toking but then
the conversations that we had were so
deep that i was like wow this
is special like i have to put like i
have to take this more
seriously and so we ended up hitting it
off
yeah six years later and the rest is
history
okay so how long 37 should we wrap up or
do another one
okay we'll do one more and if you guys
want another one then let us know we'll
we'll do something like this again i'm
not sure how many people watch it this
long
do you want to pick which one it is
got a few here let's see what's a good
one
how about this one what do you love most
about each other
and on a cute note okay well um
i'll maybe share something like it's
really good just because people might
not know
this about you or or sometimes people on
youtube you know you kind of think that
someone's one way or you're not quite
sure what's authentik but
i'd say what i love most about you is
just how much you care like you're just
such a caring
like just such a beautiful heart and
that was one thing that i
knew right away that i was so attracted
to in you is just you're caring for
strangers uh you're caring to give and
contribute not just with what you do in
your business but like day to day
um you know through philanthropy and
charity and
how much you care about me and what you
do to support me and to
help meet my needs and the relationship
so i say just how big your heart is and
just how much you care
is just one of your greatest qualities i
love most
thank you i would say for for
stefan um is is you know for those of
you who watch project life mastery
the person you see there is the person
he really is
um he is that guy who is like constantly
trying to grow
constantly trying to be the best version
of himself he's always willing to humble
himself to see
where he could work on something he's
never like in his ego where he's like no
uh he's oblivious to his flaws no he
sees the places that need improvement
and he's willing to work on those things
and that's
really special because i know a lot of
people like we know what we need to work
on but we're not
we're not willing to put in the work
we're not willing to to put in that
effort to work on it because it takes
it's too painful it's too hard but
you're always willing
as long as it's going to help you to
grow and evolve and become a better
person for yourself
for me for all of your subscribers you
know that
by growing you're able to give more so
who you see on youtube
is who he is like project like mastery
stefan like project life mastery i can
see why you picked that name
it's because that's like what you what
you want to be as a human you're always
trying to
achieve life mastery and i love that
about you i think it's so
cool i don't think i don't know many men
who are like that and i find it
extremely attractive
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