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Millionaire Couple Q&A Get To Know Us | Tatiana & Stefan James

Published on: December 2 2022 by Tatiana James

Millionaire Couple Q&A Get To Know Us | Tatiana & Stefan James

Millionaire Couple Q&A Get To Know Us | Tatiana & Stefan James

i think at this point it would be really
fun to start a business together and
we've considered
starting a podcast and maybe even doing
like a relationship course
one of the best things was just
you encouraging me to drop out of
university
yeah because uh everyone else was
discouraging that but it ended up being
one of the greatest decisions of my life
happiness is just this right now this is
happiness like
it doesn't have to be this it's actually
all the way up here it can be right here
that has to occur yeah it's just it's
just much easier to feel an experience
that we change
how you look at it some people assume
that i'm just his trophy wife
and um just don't take me seriously
or will be condescending towards me hey
guys it's tatiana and stefan
and we're here with kobe our puppy he's
a 13 week old golden retriever puppy
we got him all the way in oregon and we
love him so much
so he's going to be with us in this
video today we thought we would do a get
to know us video
we've done one in the past and that was
really fun
but we didn't get to answer all of the
questions and so we thought we would
take the time to do another one
and so we've put all of your questions
in this hat
and we're going to be pulling them at
random and answering them
so you guys can hopefully get to know us
better and have a little fun
yeah so this is going to be a two-part
series we're going to do a bunch of
questions here on tatiana james and then
we're gonna do a bunch more on the
project like master youtube channel
so we'll link to part two below and like
tatiana mentioned we've actually done
this
a few months back while we're in hawaii
uh we sent out a poll
to our followers on instagram what do
you want to know about us
we've already gotten and answered a lot
of the questions in the last video about
how we met
and uh you know our pet peeves and a lot
of a lot of the basic type of stuff so
some of the things that you might still
want to get to know about us that we
didn't answer here we might have
answered in the last video so we'll also
link
that for you guys if you want to get to
know us a little bit more but we thought
it's fun to do this because
most of our content is around business
and success and we're trying to give you
guys
some great and valuable advice but you
guys maybe want to get to know us more
on a personal level so
uh this is for those of you that want to
get us uh let's get to know us a little
bit more
and get a glimpse into our personal
lives oh kobe wants to
he has a bone so he wants to take it and
leave he wants to take it and run
all right let's get started he can do
what he wants so i'll pull
one out and we're each going to answer
the same question
okay okay at random
would you consider running a business
together
yeah for sure um we have been together
for
a long time now and although we've
always had separate businesses
we've always worked within the same
environment from home
and so we kind of know how to manage
working and living together and i think
at this point it would be really fun to
start a business together and we've
considered
starting a podcast and maybe even doing
like a relationship course since we love
uh toking about relationship stuff and
we've learned so much a lot
uh throughout the years so yeah we would
definitely
i would definitely consider it yeah i
would definitely consider it as well um
just because i think we could complement
each other really well and that's one of
the reasons why you partner together on
a business
but i'd say i'd want to make sure that
if we were
it was not at any expense or cost to our
relationship because for me the
relationship is more important
you know why would we start a business
you start a business to make money or
because you want to make an impact or a
contribution or
it's a project that you're really
passionate or excited about and
for me i would not want to if it's going
to create any more stress
or like an argument or or anything like
that then it's just not worth it
because we wouldn't be doing it really
for money you know we've got more than
enough we don't need more
it'd really be based on us trying to do
something together that we feel
we could contribute or share or make an
impact
um you know and something that we'd
enjoy doing together
we have a passion project yeah that's
something that we kind of now filter
through
based on what we want to pursue it's not
just for
you know success it's really just for
what you want to give and contribute
and enjoy okay okay you do the next one
all right what is your most what is your
most important habit each day
for me it's getting out of the house
you know it sounds so simple guys um you
know i've had a
a tendency i'd say since i was in high
school
to be addicted to tiknology i remember
getting my first computer
you know my dad getting it bringing it
home for christmas time and i just got
addicted to
uh the computer ever since got into
video games when i was very young
i got addicted to that um and of course
you know building a business
and an online business requires so much
time being in front of a computer screen
so i feel like i've spent so much time
in front of the screen and that's kind
of
more a natural tendency for myself
it's just very addictive it's very easy
to be behind a screen and watch things
be
entertained uh distract yourself you
know
fire off dopamine other
neurotransmitters that make you addicted
to it so for me the habit of just
getting out of the house which sounds
simple to
some people that might be very
extroverted but for me as an introvert
who's more of a homebody prefers to kind
of be at home
getting out of the house for me means
that i'm getting outside that comfort
zone i'm
getting air fresh air i'm getting
sunlight i'm
moving my body i'm exercising um
you know i try to do as much as i can
outside whether it's going for a walk
whether it's
doing meditation whether it's journaling
whether it's
uh you know exercising or being in
nature whatever it is because the more
that i'm doing that the more just
supports my mental health and just
living out in the real world because i
don't really view sometimes the computer
as the real world i kind of think it's
this
fantasy world um and the real world is
just you know the day-to-day of being
outside so for me i'd say that's one of
the most important habits
yeah for me i would say it is exercising
i really enjoy exercising i enjoy moving
my body
i enjoy working up a sweat and
you know when i don't exercise for
extended periods of time
like during a quarantine or you know if
for whatever reason i just kind of
fall out of my routine um then i feel it
i feel like
you know my body doesn't feel good i
feel
mentally it takes its toll and
so i always feel refreshed and
lively after i exercise and i know that
i'm taking care of my body which is a
high value of mine i really
i really value my health and my fitness
what is the greatest thing you've
learned from me
i would say um one of the best things
was just you encouraging me to drop out
of university
yeah because uh everyone else was
discouraging that
and i actually never officially dropped
out i just took off time
a semester and the semester turned in
one year one year turned into two into
three
um but yeah you were the only one who
encouraged me
to um kind of take the
path that has been least
[Laughter]
the least popular one the least popular
path yes
right um so yeah dropping out of
university and pursuing my online
business
yeah you were my you were kind of the
only one who supported that decision
and encouraged it and everyone else
thought i was really crazy
and my mom was partikularly upset
because it was very unconventional to do
something like that
but it ended up being one of the
greatest decisions of my life because
it allowed me to pursue something else
and i created
a business that led to so many new
opportunities
and uh allowed me to create you know a
level of wealth that i wouldn't have
otherwise been able to create it had i
graduated from university and even if i
got my dream job
i would be limited in ways that i'm not
limited today
i'd be limited to working i have to go
to
my workplace every day i'd have to work
my nine to five and
even i'd be limited in how much i can
earn there's a cap on that and now as an
entrepreneur
um you know i can create as long as i
just add more value and get creative i
can always earn more and
just having the flexibility and the
freedom to work from home is really cool
too
yeah it's just the opposite of what is
sold to us
which is go to school get good grades go
to university
get a job and you're going to have
security and you're going to
basically work nine to five until you're
65 years old then you're going to retire
and then you're going to enjoy your life
and i think for me you know that's a lot
of people that's what has been
you know conditioned through upbringing
and whatnot but
i had experienced and achieved a
different result in a different reality
and i think um yeah i just knew like
of course like this is your potential
this is what's possible why would
if you had the option why would you
continue going to school pursuing that
if you look at what that's going to
bring you with your time attention money
dedicated to that versus
dedicating that time attention money to
building a business online
you know it's just kind of a no-brainer
so yeah for sure
i would say the greatest lesson i've
gotten from you has been
really just how to enjoy life and be
happy
you know that's one of i think your
greatest gifts is just
um just how happy you are how
free-spirited you are how
um you're just every day joyous
and grateful and you really feel
the beauties and the richness of life
and that's something that i've struggled
with at times because i've dealt with
some mental health challenges especially
when i was younger
and just had a harder time feeling and
just
you know feeling feeling content and
satisfied and just really
happy about life but for you what i've
learned is that you don't
you really don't need anything like you
just regardless of what's going on in
your life you're just always happy
you're always you don't need anything to
happen in your life to feel happy
and it's just you're before that um
without
your business and before you create
success and you're that as well
you know with it and so that's just one
thing from you that is really rubbed off
on me
and really helped me to to grow and i
think another thing would be just how
much you care
like you're very thoughtful about people
you're very you know from
from everything from getting people
gifts to just really being considerate
and having a lot of thought behind
you know just other people whether it's
their birthday like you just go above
and beyond with those things and you're
just very selfless and just
watching and seeing how you show up with
the people in your life so
that's something that's rubbed off on me
a lot too thank you
yeah in regards to the happiness i
notiked that sometimes people think that
you know xyz needs to happen in order
for me to feel happy today
and i think what i've kind of showed you
is that yeah you can just wake up
and choose to be happy and you don't
have to have anything
go according to plan like everything can
go you know astray
in the day and you can still choose to
be happy and experience happiness and
it's like that's the better option i
think it's also
you've changed my definition of
happiness because i have such a high
standard for what is happy i'm like
for me like happiness is is like the
happiest times i've felt my life and
i really learned from you no happiness
is just
this right now this is happiness like it
doesn't have to be this grand
this grand event that has to occur yeah
it's just it's just much easier to feel
and experience that when you change
how you look at it and how you define
why it's like really good to have high
standards in certain areas of your life
and having like
a lot of rules like for example with
your health and fitness like the reason
that i'm
in i'm in shape and i stay in shape is
because i have a lot of rules
like you know more than anyone how like
diligent i am
when it comes to what i put in my mouth
and how i take care of my body
and that's good but when it comes to
other areas of life you have to really
question that and be cautious of having
too many rules because
if if if becoming happy you have all
these rules in order for you to feel
happy then it makes it so much harder
for you to feel that and experience that
on a day-to-day basis
whereas if you have like the standard is
here then you can just feel it a lot
more freely
for sure for sure okay i agree
all right let's move on okay
how did you find kobe and why did you
choose a golden retriever
yeah so we we uh you know i wish we
could take
credit but our assistant dorina is
amazing thank you
she uh you know we we kind of had
planned that we want to get a dog
because
we're kind of making a tradition in our
lives to settle down
and uh not travel as much and just kind
of be in one or two places and
we're looking to immigrate to the u.s
and buy a home and you know kind of
plant some roots start a family
things like that and so um we've been
delaying getting a dog for quite a long
time because our lifestyle just didn't
really fit with it
and so we're like okay you know what
we're going back to canada for a little
bit
we're going to be you know making this
transition now in our lives we're going
to be moving to the u.s
let's just get a dog you know now and um
you know at worst we'll have to travel
you know once or twice with him and it's
not going to be that big of a deal
and so uh we were looking for a golden
retriever
and didn't realize how difficult it
would be to find one um back when i was
a kid i grew up with dogs
and back then you just go to the flea
market you get a dog it's just
go to craigslist it's just so simple to
do it and then i started learning about
you know you want a quality breeder and
you know um you know genetik testing you
know yeah
puppy mills you don't want to support
that or anything so i just kind of
dived into that whole world of just
learning about it
and learned that with any great breeder
all of them
had nothing available so our assistant
dorina
went on a search uh where she searched
every breeder in canada
all of them had waiting lists for over a
year apparently during the pandemic
everyone's been wanting
to get a dog so then we started looking
in the u.s
and she looked all over i think she
contacted over 400 different breeders
um eventually found one well we found a
few but
uh a lot of the ones that we found were
um um
english cream uh golden retrievers and
uh we wanted a american gold retriever
which is what kobe is which is more of
like the red
for a coat and so that made it even
harder but eventually we found
um we found a great one and it was like
the only one left
it was in oregon so we had to fly uh
where were we we're in mexico we were in
costa rica no we're in
uh right right right yeah so we flew
from costa rica
to uh oregon picked him up and then we
flew to san diego
and um been there with him and now we're
back in canada so
it's been quite a journey but we're very
grateful that we got him um it's been a
lot of fun
yeah for sure we love kobe i think my
favorite part of having a dog
well i think dogs are very therapeutik
and i think that's why so many people
drink covid got
dogs because it's therapy um
when you can't go outside and you can't
socialize as much
like it is companionship and there is
something
there you know just to have that
connection and that love and taking care
of something else
beyond yourself it does something good
for you
and i think for me one of the greatest
pleasures of having the dog is just like
watching stefan and kobe bond together
and play together
and just like hug each other and it's
the cutest thing and it just shows the
power of love
like love is so powerful that when i see
them
like exchanging love it makes me feel
love and it's just
it's flows in the room it's just such a
beautiful experience and um
and i would also say that you know just
when he's like
he's tired and i just scoop him up and
he just sleeps on my chest and it's just
like the best feeling ever to have this
little
fur ball with me yeah um he's super
sweet so
he's been great we've been embracing
these crazy moments yeah we've been very
blessed to have him he's
really smart learns a lot a lot like
really fast
knows how to twirl and you know ring the
doorbell ring the doorbell and you know
all the basics and whatnot
and uh definitely a challenge at times
especially at the beginning
but but it's good to have some
responsibility right like and this is
really good preparation for us
for kids one day because you know it is
it is
you have to watch him he's you know he
in some ways equivalent to a baby
because
in some ways harder because he's got
four paws where he's always getting into
trouble and you have to watch him 24 7
at least a baby you put them down and
they stay there right
um so yeah it's been a lot of joy um
and brings a lot of fun to our lives
yeah we're excited to see him grow up
and he has his own instagram account
which you can follow i'll link it down
below it's called i'm kobe
i'm cold i'm cold i'm kobe the golden
retriever yeah and he posts like every
day
all right let's move on what is one of
your favorite recent tv series or movies
i would say uh i'd say
uh we really got into crown yeah
crown was really good and i'd also say
cobra kai we also enjoyed cobra kai was
a lot of fun too
yeah yeah we like we like to get in some
some good series once in a while right
now we're watching
like superstore what is it called uh i
wouldn't really say
we're committed to it just yet yeah
sometimes you know we kind of get into
something and then we kind of take a
break for a while
there's something really good that we
like high production yeah that's really
entertaining
very binge-worthy then we'll get into it
but yeah
oh we also watched that chess one was
that queen's gambit
that was getting one two two yeah uh my
turn
all right one what is one of the biggest
misconceptions people have about you
yeah um i would say
it's that people always just
not everyone but some people assume that
i'm just
his trophy wife and um
just don't take me seriously or will be
condescending towards me
so this often happens when we're like
you know
sometimes in business relationships or
for example with a realtor
like the realtor will be you know we're
both there
speaking with the realtor and the
realtor is making eye contact with him
and toking to him because the realtor
thinks that he's the one who's going to
make all the decisions and
close the deal and it's like well what
about me you think i'm just hanging on
here
and you know i'm a partner in this
decision too
and or even you know the other day i was
at
um like a spa place and the woman's
there
said so do you do you work or does your
husband just provide for you
and i was like oh my goodness how can
someone even say something like that
first of all like just keep it to
yourself
but just like this is something that
happens a lot just by the way
yeah just because of how i look um and
they just kind of assume that you know
all i do is just lounge and take care of
my beauty and i don't do
anything for work and i just
everything's provided for me
that's like it's annoying i'd say it's
just you know
people because that's what you most
probably commonly see so they just kind
of lump you in that category
they see an attractive woman and i guess
most women that
are attractive like you you know they
depend on
their man to provide for them it's not
true yeah it's a lazy
way of making a judgment and it's kind
of unfair
but you know i notiked like i know for
you on your
youtube videos sometimes you know people
click on the thumbnail because they're
like oh an attractive girl but then they
leave a comment saying
wow i was blown away i didn't realize
how intelligent you are i'd get so much
great advice
so it can also work a bit to that
advantage for sure like i can it can be
to my advantage
especially on youtube a lot of people
will click on my videos for
you know just being curious of what i
have to say and they actually find value
in what i have to say when they start
listening to me instead of just looking
at me
yeah and that's why yeah and that's what
i think makes you
so incredible is because here you are
a beautiful girl but also intelligent
like you're the total package
of that you know and that um just makes
you even more attractive
okay uh for me i'd say the biggest
misconceptions
are kobe no i'd say that
um maybe then i'm perfect
you know which i'm definitely not i have
i made mistakes and you know not perfect
by any means
um or i guess i i'd say like in the
industry that i'm in that people
automatikally assume
that because i'm toking about subjects
like money and success
that i'm a scammer um i think a lot of
people have been burned or they've had
you know bad experiences or just
automatikally assume
that you know someone like myself would
be a scammer because
there are other people out there that
are scammers
and tok about these subjects rather
than it's not true i'm just someone that
is sharing a lot of what i've learned in
my life a lot of the best advice
around what i've studied when it comes
to success and business and marketing
all these different things to share with
other people but i'm doing it because i
want to help people
i'm in the helping people business
number one to help people that's why you
get into this business
in this industry of course i want to
make money as well but i'm always trying
to deliver and add value contribute
leave people better off
and that's what i've consistently done
so i'd say there's some people that just
automatikally to see
um you know might judge based on one
video or
you know the the subject line or you
know maybe i'm toking about something
motivational or
trying to get people excited to build a
business or pursue their goals and
dreams and a lot of people just kind of
put me in that category oh he's trying
to scam you or he's trying to you know
take your money or something like that
so but you know that's just something
that comes with the territory yeah it
comes with the territory comes with the
industry
um you know these people unfortunately
don't have a chance to get to know me
and my true intentions
and my values and and the kind of person
that i am and
um you know if they watch enough of my
videos or get to know me they'll they'll
see
my sincerity i believe so come down
yeah and stefan you know you're the type
of person who like you're really willing
to share anything that's
benefited you in your life and even if
it is personal
even if it is deeply personal and it's
not to your advantage to share something
like that like you share those things
this is having a puppy is you always
have to watch him
right now he's in one of his crazy modes
too yeah he's in his active mode
okay what happened to your bone
that's supposed to keep him distracted
for a while but anyways yeah
so um and and that's like you know
people often fail to see that and um
just lead to draw lead to
different conclusions and jump to
assumptions and stuff but that's just
you know
and it's a lot of you know what you kind
of learn is that there's a lot of people
that are a bit more superficial you know
easy to judge
um you know and i think it's a shame a
lot of people that are like that we're
gonna miss out more on life because
if you're just making a snap judgment
based on very limited information
you're not you're not really yet you're
missing out on what could have been
there
you know and that goes from meeting
anybody in your life if you're gonna
meet someone on your on the street or
whatever you can
make a snap judgment about the person or
if you actually get to know them
and maybe if you take the time to put
aside your preconceived notions and
assumptions and you actually get to know
them and try to understand them
then that could be an amazing person
that you could have in your life or
truly benefit from so
we just kind of live in more of a
superficial culture and
for those of you that are here we
appreciate you guys and you guys know
who we are and
you know about us and you guys have had
that chance um
to get to know us in ways that other
people won't so and the danger
about doing something like that about
judging others
is that you've now created a filter and
that now
every time that person toks or does
anything you're seeing them through that
lens
through that filter that you've created
and you can never genuinely see who they
are because you have this filter that's
blocking you from tr
seeing their true selves so you have to
be very careful about
the judgments that you are placing upon
other people because it prevents you
from truly getting
to know people at the deepest level
yeah absolutely okay next
okay do you get recognized a lot in
public do you
do people come up to you uh we do um
it's been a lot less common during the
pandemic especially when everyone's
wearing masks and whatnot
but yeah i mean we've had we've had some
days where we'd have a couple people in
a day come up to us
you know whether it's at the mall
whether it's at restaurants
whether it's at the airport whatever it
might be
people recognize us from youtube on some
videos that we might have had that have
gone viral done really well
but i'd say lately it's been quite rare
um
i think like people want a social
distance and then there's also
the mask thing too so it's been a lot
less often yeah
do you guys smoke weed
oh yeah yeah we do yeah yeah yeah for
sure
yeah i like weed yeah where it's legal
of course so we're here in
vancouver right now and you know
california and whatnot but
yeah we enjoy you know smoking weed or
vaporizing it you know i've got um
the volcano which is this like expensive
like the top-of-the-line device that
there's like this bag and it blows it up
and
it's like the vapor of it but you know
one thing i'd say with weed it's it's
actually helped our relationship
where we are more fun or playful or we
connect
on more intimate levels which is really
beneficial but i'd also say
um you know we're also very mindful that
it kind of like has like a negative
effect at times where just like we have
more brain fog
but you can get like too too addicted to
it and using it too often as well
sometimes cause more anxiety or
anxiousness yeah i'll just make you
like over eating yeah make you lazy want
to stay inside so we
we limit ourselves because we we know
what it's like to have too much of it
and so um yeah we definitely do use it
in places where it's legal
but we use it uh in a we we
we use it in a way that best serves us
yeah just once in a while
for fun spice it up a bit who spends
more money in the relationship
[Laughter]
me i do i think it's probably you
i guess so like i guess yeah i mean
ultimately you really don't speak yeah
we don't much money
i mean you buy more you buy more
electronics but i buy
way more clothes yeah you know the thing
is
like we because we have that like a
digital nomad lifestyle
and we live out of suitcases a lot of
the time like we do have you know
storage
you know here and there and certain
places and whatnot with
more of our stuff but because we're more
digital nomads we're very mindful about
what we do by because there's only so
much space that we have
usually live out of one suitcase one
large suitcase yeah so we're kind of
simple in a lot of ways but you
definitely like to buy
clothes and i like clothing i like
jewelry i like shoes i like purses but
again because of our lifestyle there's
only so much i can buy so i am limited
but if i had a huge closet that would
change
yeah you know for me i really i'll spend
any amount of money
when it comes to health yeah i don't
care i've just made that decision a long
time ago
food supplements um tiknology
biohacking tiknology i don't care what
it costs
if if it's something it's always a
worthwhile investment if it can
help my health in some way which is the
greatest wealth
so for me that's something that i'll
definitely spend thousands and thousands
of dollars on i just really believe in
the impact that that has in my life
personal development will spend almost
any amount of money if it can
enhance our lives in any way and i have
no problem with that i think you
actually
you spend more freely than me um like
you're more
like you're you chew you make smart
decisions if i want something i'll buy
it
yeah like for myself i um
i sometimes i'll like be thrifty
or like i i won't buy something that i
easily could just because i don't think
it's a good deal
you know so you're not really like that
you don't go for the best deal i
like it yeah for me i don't really need
a lot of stuff a lot of physical
material type of stuff so for me i don't
really spend as much on that i
i think i spend more on things that have
a practikal
purpose to my life and my development
yeah what's the challenge you're
currently trying to overcome
this is kind of similar to what i shared
i think in the last video
is really just getting and it kind of
goes to what i said before just
really trying to get outside more like
really working on mental health and
happiness and joy
and excitement and passion and bliss and
all like you know my emotional quality
of life
um that's something that i value so much
because at the end of the day
your life is not how much money you have
it's not
you know um your car your house anything
like that it's how you feel each day the
quality of your life
is the quality of emotions that you feel
every day so for me i
i really put a lot of
time and attention to that doing my
rituals my routines the habits that
help support my mental health and then
i'd say another thing
is is is ego like
is at times being an ego being in a
selfish mode
being self-absorbed wanting just to
be in isolation and be lazy or just kind
of have immediate pleasure and
gratification
and there's nothing wrong with that once
in a while you know at times but i
notike more and more i have i think of
aware an awareness of that side of
myself where i'm like
i don't i can go down to this lower
level of consciousness
and i'm aware to try to get myself out
of that and try to
more consistently be aware of ego
and catch it and to just
surrender to life and be present and and
be
selfless and giving and generous and and
all of that so there's kind of
this ego backlash that i think i
experienced where
it tries to pull me back down to a lower
consciousness
and more in that comfort zone and it's
just that constant and that's probably a
lifelong
journey of dissolving the ego in that
way but a lot of things i've done to
help have helped that and it's just
yeah it's just continuing to be my one
of my focuses so yeah
your level of awareness is amazing it's
really really
valuable i don't know a lot of people
who have that kind of awareness because
you do have to humble yourself
so it's funny you tok about ego but you
know you have to be humble to notike
your ego
um so yeah for me i would say um
i think first of all is just like
releasing attachment
to plans uh you know
we we are planners and we like to plan
out our lives and
you know how the year is going to go and
what we're going to do we're going to
travel
all of that but um especially with covid
the pandemic you know we've had to
change everything up
and month by month we don't know what's
going to happen and there's a lot of
uncertainty
myself partikularly you know i thought
that by now
i would have be like on my second kid
and like have my home
and my nest and all of that stuff and
none of that's happened because it's all
gotten pushed back
because of the circumstances and just
being okay with that
because when you're attached to how
something goes when you're attached to
anything
that's now that attachment is creating
an opportunity for suffering because
what you attach yourself
to if things don't go as planned or as
if you lose it that
loss can create suffering um and so
i've realized that and i've just been
practiking just releasing attachment to
those things
like we were supposed to have our
wedding last year it got pushed back to
this year
and you know it's supposed to happen in
july and i have no idea if it's gonna
happen or not
like i haven't even emailed the guests
since last year because we have no
update on that
and i'm just like yeah yeah it may or
may not happen i don't know
yeah we we may or may not ha immigrate
to the us
i don't know we may or may not have kids
i don't know like all of those things
it's all just up in the air
and just being okay with that because if
i'm so attached
then i'll create pain in my life which
is totally unnecessary because my
suffering isn't going to change the
results and the outcome of anything
yeah it's not you know all of those
things are going to happen in our lives
but it's just that
the time frame of what you originally
plan or expect for
gets pushed back and changed and there's
the uncertainty around it i'd say
but i think you know what you've done a
great job of is just accepting things
and just like
everything is just amazing and great
like just being present
yeah and not living in the future as
much and just loving
life as it is and you know and
everything's going to be amazing anyways
everything's going to be all part of the
great plan
and gratitude is the antidote because
when you're grateful
instead of thinking oh i should have had
this i wish it went like this this
didn't go according to plan instead just
be grateful work for what is be grateful
for what you have
be grateful for this moment and i've
just been practiking
i've just been practiking living living
in the present and it's like everything
great you experience in the present
moment
you know joy happiness love that's all
experienced right now in this moment
in the future that's not that hasn't
happened yet the past has gone so all
you have is the present but so
many times we spend a lot of time in our
minds in the past or in the future
and it takes away from the pleasures
that we could be experiencing right now
yeah all right so how about we'll do one
more for part one
and then we'll continue the rest of the
questions we got a lot more we'll do it
in the second part
because i know kobe's getting a little
bit crazy right now too so i'll take a
break
for him this is his crazy time and then
he gets tired
okay should i you know i'll pick
something simple let me see
for this one okay i'll say that was a
deep one we'll save for the next video
okay uh what is your favorite video game
oh so easy super mario bros
i made a video about it too on my
youtube i was like five lessons i
learned from
playing super mario bros seriously some
deep left so video games can actually
help you become more successful yeah
like literally i'll link it in the
description box below
some good lessons in that but um i love
super mario bros
and we've recently got the 3d world and
it's so fun and it's so much harder
um but yeah it's like the only video
game that i'm good at
yeah so during the pen dem last year
during the pandemic during lockdown
we decided to get a nintendo switch yeah
um
you know i used to play a lot of games
but now just kind of
once in a while but you know under
lockdown we got
uh nintendo switch and just playing the
the classic super mario brothers which i
grew up playing
apparently tatiana didn't she had to
learn a little bit
she had to kind of learn how to how to
play it and
she's gotten pretty good at it now which
is good we've like beat that game
a couple times now and now got the the
thing i have to actually beg him to play
the game with me because he doesn't like
playing
with me because he's so good at video
games guys like he's so good so i'm
always dragging him behind and he likes
to go really fast
so i have to be like come on let's play
let's play but he likes the 3d world
yeah and i'd say for me um only you know
the main one i play when snowalo is the
nba
2k um i love basketball so
nba 2k is fun to get into once in a
while yeah you're really good at that
yeah thanks okay so we'll wrap it up
yeah thanks for watching guys hopefully
you
enjoyed this video we're going to
continue on stefan's channel so i'll
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