Watch these 8 minutes if you want to go from FAILURE to SUCCESSFUL NOW!

Published on: December 7 2022 by MATT RILEY

Watch these 8 minutes if you want to go from FAILURE to SUCCESSFUL NOW!

Watch these 8 minutes if you want to go from FAILURE to SUCCESSFUL NOW!

Watch these 8 minutes if you want to go from FAILURE to SUCCESSFUL NOW!

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00:00:01	00:00:07	how many of you felt like a failure at
00:00:04	00:00:10	one point do me a favor take a deep
00:00:07	00:00:14	breath with me for a second breathe in
00:00:10	00:00:16	breathe out let's do it again just to
00:00:14	00:00:23	make sure you're following along breathe
00:00:16	00:00:25	in breathe out a college degree does not
00:00:23	00:00:27	land you an amazing job like everyone
00:00:25	00:00:30	told me would happen growing up go to
00:00:27	00:00:34	college so you can get a good job I did
00:00:30	00:00:38	and in 2017 I landed a customer
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00:00:38	00:00:46	actually great pay $42,000 a year I was
00:00:42	00:00:48	broke an America that's broke I kept
00:00:46	00:00:50	trying to convince myself that's ok Matt
00:00:48	00:00:53	you can afford the necessities food
00:00:50	00:00:57	water clothes a roof what more do you
00:00:53	00:01:01	need happiness huh money doesn't buy
00:00:57	00:01:04	happiness 53% of people end up unhappy
00:01:01	00:01:07	with their work that means between you
00:01:04	00:01:09	and your best friend only one of you is
00:01:07	00:01:15	gonna be happy and the other is not
00:01:09	00:01:17	that's sad that is so sad well go play
00:01:15	00:01:22	video games that makes you happy Matt
00:01:17	00:01:24	I'll shoot I'm time to play that's okay
00:01:22	00:01:27	traveling makes you happy well I don't
00:01:24	00:01:30	have the money for a flight or a hotel
00:01:27	00:01:32	I'll just stay in my apartment it's fine
00:01:30	00:01:34	those are selfish things too one anyway
00:01:32	00:01:37	just go spend time with your family and
00:01:34	00:01:39	friends well everyone's always busy when
00:01:37	00:01:42	I'm free and I'm always busy when
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00:01:45	00:01:53	anyway wake up get ready traffic work oh
00:01:49	00:01:55	yeah that's right work and then after
00:01:53	00:01:57	that more traffic and then well I'm
00:01:55	00:01:58	tired for the day you need to rest up
00:01:57	00:02:05	for the next day
00:01:58	00:02:07	then it repeats six months later I asked
00:02:05	00:02:10	myself is this really what my life is
00:02:07	00:02:11	gonna be about I don't feel good telling
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00:02:11	00:02:17	don't even feel good telling myself what
00:02:14	00:02:20	I do that's what I went to college for I
00:02:17	00:02:22	had enough so I went on the internet
00:02:20	00:02:26	searching for other ways to make money
00:02:22	00:02:28	and went on YouTube found some open your
00:02:26	00:02:31	own business online found drop shipping
00:02:28	00:02:34	and selling products on a website was
00:02:31	00:02:36	this my way out I tried and I started
00:02:34	00:02:39	and the moment I felt like I was gonna
00:02:36	00:02:42	be somebody the moment I felt like I was
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00:02:49	00:02:55	the ground reality hit instead of
00:02:53	00:02:58	doubling my income like I thought would
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00:02:58	00:03:04	was in the red $1,000 gone another
00:03:01	00:03:08	thousand then somehow ten thousand
00:03:04	00:03:10	vanished I jumped into the middle of an
00:03:08	00:03:16	ocean with sharks not knowing how to
00:03:10	00:03:19	swim I was a loser again I couldn't get
00:03:16	00:03:22	any business to work looking back what
00:03:19	00:03:25	I've called myself a loser yes but was
00:03:22	00:03:28	it a bad thing to be no the way I viewed
00:03:25	00:03:29	being a loser back then was I can't do
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00:03:29	00:03:35	I suck at life the way I view being a
00:03:31	00:03:37	loser now is good I just found another
00:03:35	00:03:40	way that doesn't work I can eliminate
00:03:37	00:03:43	that and now one step closer to success
00:03:40	00:03:44	if you're not losing you're not playing
00:03:43	00:03:46	and if you're not playing you're never
00:03:44	00:03:51	gonna win and if you're always winning
00:03:46	00:03:54	good good for you good for you you're a
00:03:51	00:03:58	getting robot but my win rate is not
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00:03:58	00:04:04	Kobe Bryant had a point four four seven
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00:04:04	00:04:10	he missed more than half the shots he
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00:04:10	00:04:13	considered one of the best you think
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00:04:13	00:04:20	good lose more and more after that in
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00:04:20	00:04:25	first winner and lose more after that
00:04:23	00:04:27	until you find more winners if you're
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00:04:32	00:04:37	why are you scrolling through a social
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00:04:40	00:04:45	dragging down your success you've seen
00:04:42	00:04:47	me in other videos you've seen me as a
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00:04:50	00:04:56	nicely doesn't stik to your brain
00:04:52	00:04:58	that's just how humans work if I want to
00:04:56	00:05:01	drill this into your mind I had to say
00:04:58	00:05:05	something absurd like you're a loser
00:05:01	00:05:10	but I love that because it means you're
00:05:05	00:05:11	a winner too you're a winner as long as
00:05:10	00:05:12	you're doing something towards achieving
00:05:11	00:05:15	your goals
00:05:12	00:05:16	you're up in the winner and I'm proud of
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00:05:16	00:05:21	okay Matt I get it but what are your
00:05:18	00:05:24	secrets how can I be like you well first
00:05:21	00:05:25	you have to understand that I'm not any
00:05:24	00:05:28	better than you
00:05:25	00:05:30	I'm not talented I sucked at everything
00:05:28	00:05:33	I wanted to be good at baseball
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00:05:33	00:05:39	even took acting classes there's only
00:05:36	00:05:42	two things I'm good at now business and
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00:05:45	00:05:51	even the best of the best to Bill Gates
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00:05:51	00:05:55	good enough for me
00:05:52	00:05:57	and I'm happy you want to know my secret
00:05:55	00:05:59	I'll tell you what it is I'll tell you
00:05:57	00:06:04	what I live back its reward to risk
00:05:59	00:06:07	management what does this mean well is
00:06:04	00:06:11	your next action step going to do more
00:06:07	00:06:14	harm to you or more benefit to you do
00:06:11	00:06:16	the advantages outweigh the discomforts
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00:06:17	00:06:22	okay so if I do this next move the best
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00:06:22	00:06:27	knock out my opponent and win the game
00:06:25	00:06:30	and the worst that can happen is I only
00:06:27	00:06:32	take a little bit of damage the same
00:06:30	00:06:34	applies to business okay if I run this
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00:06:38	00:06:43	I only lose 500 and now I know why I
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00:06:46	00:06:52	ties back to losing I lost so I could be
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00:06:55	00:07:02	one step closer so today I want you to
00:06:59	00:07:06	do this I'm gonna have you do the
00:07:02	00:07:10	if-then statements if your friends ask
00:07:06	00:07:13	you to go to a party then say no because
00:07:10	00:07:17	you've got your business to work on if
00:07:13	00:07:21	your next advertisement fails then
00:07:17	00:07:23	reevaluate and try a better one if you
00:07:21	00:07:28	catch yourself scrolling through social
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00:07:28	00:07:31	get a sip of water then commit your next
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00:07:34	00:07:39	you need if you get the urge to watch
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00:07:39	00:07:43	and play down there don't worry if it's
00:07:41	00:07:46	the real thing I'll let you slide on
00:07:43	00:07:48	that one but if you catch yourself doing
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00:07:48	00:07:55	stop and go take a quick walk outside it
00:07:53	00:07:59	sounds easy on paper but it's going to
00:07:55	00:08:01	be hard it takes an average of 21 days
00:07:59	00:08:05	for the human brain to get used to new
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00:08:05	00:08:10	promise you're going to thank me for
00:08:07	00:08:13	your new habits you're going to be a
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00:08:13	00:08:17	you're at right now
00:08:14	00:08:21	you will stay the same if you're the
00:08:17	00:08:24	same be a better version of yourself be
00:08:21	00:08:36	a loser be a winner
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