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Hate Your Job And Want To Quit? Do This!

Published on: December 9 2022 by MyWifeQuitHerJob Ecommerce Channel

Hate Your Job And Want To Quit? Do This!

Hate Your Job And Want To Quit? Do This!

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00:00:00 00:00:03 now life doesn't always work out the way
00:00:01 00:00:05 you want it to and sometimes you have to
00:00:03 00:00:07 make a hard decision should i quit my
00:00:05 00:00:10 job should i shut down my business
00:00:07 00:00:11 should i end a partnership now in this
00:00:10 00:00:13 video you'll learn the exact questions
00:00:11 00:00:17 that i ask myself when deciding whether
00:00:13 00:00:17 to move on and pursue something else
00:00:19 00:00:22 if you enjoyed this video don't forget
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00:00:26 00:00:30 now first off the principles outlined in
00:00:27 00:00:32 this video apply to all areas of life
00:00:30 00:00:33 for example i use this framework for
00:00:32 00:00:36 relationships projects marketing
00:00:33 00:00:38 strategies everything i also want to
00:00:36 00:00:40 stress that quitting or moving on does
00:00:38 00:00:43 not necessarily mean that you are giving
00:00:40 00:00:45 up sometimes moving on simply involves a
00:00:43 00:00:47 pivot or a mindset shift that can change
00:00:45 00:00:49 your perspective on how you feel now
00:00:47 00:00:51 it's also important to note that we all
00:00:49 00:00:53 have baggage in our lives which could be
00:00:51 00:00:55 your job or your business that need to
00:00:53 00:00:57 be called without even realizing it we
00:00:55 00:00:59 all put up with activities or people who
00:00:57 00:01:01 drain us of our energy because we are
00:00:59 00:01:03 afraid to rock the boat now the
00:01:01 00:01:05 framework that i'm about to teach you
00:01:03 00:01:07 will help put an end to your misery and
00:01:05 00:01:09 by answering these questions you'll
00:01:07 00:01:11 achieve clarity and understand exactly
00:01:09 00:01:13 what you must do but before we begin i
00:01:11 00:01:15 want to emphasize that in order for this
00:01:13 00:01:17 process to work you have to write down
00:01:15 00:01:19 everything every single question i'm
00:01:17 00:01:21 about to ask you must be typed or
00:01:19 00:01:23 handwritten in a document
00:01:21 00:01:26 also you must force yourself to assign a
00:01:23 00:01:28 number to each of your answers as well
00:01:26 00:01:30 numbers don't lie and they allow you to
00:01:28 00:01:32 quantify and justify the results in your
00:01:30 00:01:33 mind before taking action
00:01:32 00:01:35 by the way some of you watching this
00:01:33 00:01:37 video are used to using your gut to make
00:01:35 00:01:39 big decisions and using your gut is
00:01:37 00:01:41 great but sometimes your gut doesn't
00:01:39 00:01:42 know the answer sometimes you're just
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00:01:42 00:01:46 all right question number one is your
00:01:44 00:01:48 job or business limiting your growth now
00:01:46 00:01:49 when it comes to quitting your job or
00:01:48 00:01:51 shutting down your business the first
00:01:49 00:01:54 and easiest question to ask yourself is
00:01:51 00:01:56 whether you are settling or compromising
00:01:54 00:01:57 your potential are you working at a job
00:01:56 00:01:59 or running a business that has a low
00:01:57 00:02:02 ceiling and doesn't exercise your brain
00:01:59 00:02:03 to its fullest potential for example
00:02:02 00:02:05 let's say you're selling cheap chinese
00:02:03 00:02:07 junk with your aliexpress drop shipping
00:02:05 00:02:09 business and providing almost zero value
00:02:07 00:02:10 to your end customer even though you
00:02:09 00:02:13 might be making a couple bucks here and
00:02:10 00:02:14 there is selling junk with zero quality
00:02:13 00:02:16 control a sustainable business that will
00:02:14 00:02:17 continue to grow
00:02:16 00:02:19 are you working in a day job where you
00:02:17 00:02:21 have stopped learning are you just going
00:02:19 00:02:23 through the motions at work every day
00:02:21 00:02:25 just for the sake of a steady paycheck
00:02:23 00:02:27 and can you see yourself growing at your
00:02:25 00:02:29 current position now my friend nathan
00:02:27 00:02:31 berry was making a healthy six-figure
00:02:29 00:02:33 income selling courses and e-books when
00:02:31 00:02:35 he realized that he wanted to work on
00:02:33 00:02:37 something bigger so he made the
00:02:35 00:02:39 difficult decision to shut down his
00:02:37 00:02:41 course business and started convertkit
00:02:39 00:02:42 one of the best email marketing software
00:02:41 00:02:44 companies in the world
00:02:42 00:02:46 now for this question i want you to
00:02:44 00:02:48 write down one of the following two
00:02:46 00:02:50 statements and assign a number from 1 to
00:02:48 00:02:52 10 where 10 is the best
00:02:50 00:02:54 my business or job offers the potential
00:02:52 00:02:57 to grow and challenge me to the best of
00:02:54 00:03:00 my abilities or my business or job does
00:02:57 00:03:02 not offer the potential to grow and
00:03:00 00:03:04 challenge me to the best of my abilities
00:03:02 00:03:06 then give it a number from 1 to 10 where
00:03:04 00:03:08 a 10 indicates that you're being
00:03:06 00:03:10 challenged and growing all right
00:03:08 00:03:12 question number two have you put your
00:03:10 00:03:14 best foot forward now have you tried
00:03:12 00:03:15 your best to improve your situation and
00:03:14 00:03:17 have you done everything in your power
00:03:15 00:03:19 to grow your business or are you just
00:03:17 00:03:21 giving up at the first sign of hardship
00:03:19 00:03:23 now for most people the answer this
00:03:21 00:03:25 question cannot be answered objectively
00:03:23 00:03:27 and you must seek out a neutral third
00:03:25 00:03:29 party for a real answer now over the
00:03:27 00:03:31 years i've received countless emails
00:03:29 00:03:32 from small business owners complaining
00:03:31 00:03:34 that it's impossible to start a
00:03:32 00:03:36 successful ecommerce store steve i've
00:03:34 00:03:38 tried every marketing strategy out there
00:03:36 00:03:40 this is never going to work steve i
00:03:38 00:03:42 tried selling online but every product i
00:03:40 00:03:44 could think of had too much competition
00:03:42 00:03:46 one time i decided to challenge one of
00:03:44 00:03:48 my readers who claimed to have tried
00:03:46 00:03:50 everything but when i went to take a
00:03:48 00:03:51 look at their website her online store
00:03:50 00:03:53 looked horrible there were spelling
00:03:51 00:03:55 errors grammatikal mistakes and the
00:03:53 00:03:57 photography was terrible it's no wonder
00:03:55 00:03:59 that her online store was a failure
00:03:57 00:04:01 because she didn't even complete the
00:03:59 00:04:02 basics correctly so when it comes to
00:04:01 00:04:04 putting your best foot forward with your
00:04:02 00:04:06 business you can't really claim to have
00:04:04 00:04:09 tried everything until you've overcome
00:04:06 00:04:10 at least one major obstacle you can't
00:04:09 00:04:12 claim to put your best foot forward
00:04:10 00:04:14 without soliciting outside help now this
00:04:12 00:04:16 principle applies to your day job as
00:04:14 00:04:17 well have you spoken to your boss to
00:04:16 00:04:19 discuss other roles that might be more
00:04:17 00:04:21 fulfilling now before running off your
00:04:19 00:04:23 job or your business make sure that
00:04:21 00:04:24 you've given it your all knowing that
00:04:23 00:04:26 you've tried your best to rectify your
00:04:24 00:04:28 situation is extremely important in
00:04:26 00:04:31 order to move on in good conscience
00:04:28 00:04:33 there should be no regrets so write down
00:04:31 00:04:34 one of the following two statements i
00:04:33 00:04:37 put my best foot forward to make things
00:04:34 00:04:38 work or there are additional avenues i
00:04:37 00:04:40 haven't tried yet to improve my
00:04:38 00:04:42 situation
00:04:40 00:04:44 then assign a number from one to ten
00:04:42 00:04:46 where a one indicates you have tried
00:04:44 00:04:48 everything in your power
00:04:46 00:04:50 question number three is your business
00:04:48 00:04:52 or job sparking more joy than
00:04:50 00:04:53 frustration now most likely you aren't
00:04:52 00:04:55 watching this video unless you're
00:04:53 00:04:57 sufficiently frustrated but a simple
00:04:55 00:04:59 question to ask yourself is whether you
00:04:57 00:05:01 are still enjoying the journey are there
00:04:59 00:05:03 more positives and negatives and is your
00:05:01 00:05:05 time worth the added stress
00:05:03 00:05:07 now when my businesses were making 4x my
00:05:05 00:05:09 day job salary i was actually making 8x
00:05:07 00:05:11 when i finally quit i debated whether to
00:05:09 00:05:12 quit but i loved my job so much that i
00:05:11 00:05:14 was willing to stay despite the
00:05:12 00:05:17 inconvenience of having to commute to a
00:05:14 00:05:18 physical office now when my wife and i
00:05:17 00:05:20 started our online store and received no
00:05:18 00:05:21 sales in the first couple months the
00:05:20 00:05:24 thought of shutting it down had crossed
00:05:21 00:05:25 my mind but i was learning so much and
00:05:24 00:05:27 having so much fun that i was willing to
00:05:25 00:05:29 stik it out for better or for worse so
00:05:27 00:05:32 for this question write down one of the
00:05:29 00:05:34 following two statements my business or
00:05:32 00:05:37 job provides more enjoyment than stress
00:05:34 00:05:38 or my business or job provides more
00:05:37 00:05:41 stress than enjoyment
00:05:38 00:05:43 then give it a number from 1 to 10 where
00:05:41 00:05:44 a 10 indicates that your business sparks
00:05:43 00:05:46 joy
00:05:44 00:05:49 question number 4 is your business or
00:05:46 00:05:50 job detrimental to your health now the
00:05:49 00:05:52 word health for this question can apply
00:05:50 00:05:54 to many aspects of your life so for
00:05:52 00:05:56 example does your business negatively
00:05:54 00:05:58 impact your own health mental or
00:05:56 00:06:00 physical the healthier marriage the
00:05:58 00:06:03 healthier relationship with friends the
00:06:00 00:06:04 healthier relationship with your kids so
00:06:03 00:06:07 first of all you have to decide how much
00:06:04 00:06:08 you value each of what i just mentioned
00:06:07 00:06:10 some entrepreneurs claim to put family
00:06:08 00:06:12 and marriage first but then do the
00:06:10 00:06:14 complete opposite other entrepreneurs
00:06:12 00:06:16 sacrifice their own health to maintain
00:06:14 00:06:18 their business and family and the key is
00:06:16 00:06:20 understanding what you truly value
00:06:18 00:06:21 then you must ask yourself how
00:06:20 00:06:24 detrimental it is for you to stay in
00:06:21 00:06:26 your current situation is your business
00:06:24 00:06:28 or job worth the toll on your mental and
00:06:26 00:06:30 physical health now the answer to this
00:06:28 00:06:33 question requires only a number write
00:06:30 00:06:35 down a number from 1 to 10 where a 10
00:06:33 00:06:37 indicates that your business or job does
00:06:35 00:06:39 not affect your health whatsoever
00:06:37 00:06:41 question number five does your job or
00:06:39 00:06:43 business compromise your beliefs now
00:06:41 00:06:45 money often does strange things to
00:06:43 00:06:47 people and excessive greed can sometimes
00:06:45 00:06:49 lead to compromise it's a slippery slope
00:06:47 00:06:51 and as humans we sometimes make
00:06:49 00:06:53 decisions purely based on the money
00:06:51 00:06:55 without thinking about the effects on
00:06:53 00:06:56 other people or the environment so for
00:06:55 00:06:58 example let's say that you started a
00:06:56 00:07:00 successful business selling diamonds but
00:06:58 00:07:01 later discovered that millions of
00:07:00 00:07:03 innocent women and children were being
00:07:01 00:07:05 exploited to mine and produce your
00:07:03 00:07:07 products would you be fine with that
00:07:05 00:07:09 what if the company that you work for is
00:07:07 00:07:12 responsible for dumping toxic waste into
00:07:09 00:07:14 the ocean now sometimes our business or
00:07:12 00:07:16 job silently kills us on the inside even
00:07:14 00:07:17 though the money is good you may have to
00:07:16 00:07:19 ask yourself whether you're working on a
00:07:17 00:07:21 project that you believe in is your
00:07:19 00:07:22 business or job turning you into someone
00:07:21 00:07:24 you hate
00:07:22 00:07:26 my buddy derek halpern used to run a
00:07:24 00:07:28 successful business publishing
00:07:26 00:07:29 entertainment news and gossip before
00:07:28 00:07:32 deciding that it didn't make him feel
00:07:29 00:07:33 good inside so he shut it down and now
00:07:32 00:07:36 runs a multi-million dollar business
00:07:33 00:07:37 selling health food over at trovani so
00:07:36 00:07:39 for this question write down one of the
00:07:37 00:07:41 following statements
00:07:39 00:07:43 my business or job adds value to the
00:07:41 00:07:46 world and i believe in what i do
00:07:43 00:07:48 or my business or job does not add much
00:07:46 00:07:50 value to the world i could do better
00:07:48 00:07:52 then assign a number from 1 to 10 where
00:07:50 00:07:56 a 10 indicates that you feel strongly in
00:07:52 00:07:57 what you do or the service you provide
00:07:56 00:07:59 question number six how often do you
00:07:57 00:08:01 think about quitting now the answer this
00:07:59 00:08:03 question is often the best indicator of
00:08:01 00:08:05 whether you should quit your job or move
00:08:03 00:08:06 on from your business how often do you
00:08:05 00:08:08 think about quitting is it every single
00:08:06 00:08:09 minute of every day or is it only
00:08:08 00:08:12 something that you think about
00:08:09 00:08:13 occasionally like once per month now the
00:08:12 00:08:15 most telling signal of whether you
00:08:13 00:08:17 should quit is how your situation makes
00:08:15 00:08:19 you feel for example when you think
00:08:17 00:08:21 about your business or job does it put
00:08:19 00:08:23 you in a bad mood does thinking about
00:08:21 00:08:26 your situation ruin your entire day does
00:08:23 00:08:27 it stop you from sleeping well at night
00:08:26 00:08:29 now if negative thoughts about your
00:08:27 00:08:31 business or day job consume your mind
00:08:29 00:08:32 all the time then that's a leading
00:08:31 00:08:34 indicator that you need to get out of
00:08:32 00:08:36 there now the answer to this question
00:08:34 00:08:39 requires only a number jot down a number
00:08:36 00:08:42 from 1 to 10 where a 10 indicates that
00:08:39 00:08:43 you rarely think about quitting and a1
00:08:42 00:08:45 indicates that you think about quitting
00:08:43 00:08:46 all the time
00:08:45 00:08:49 question 7 what's keeping you in your
00:08:46 00:08:50 current situation now we all do things
00:08:49 00:08:52 that we don't want to do because we're
00:08:50 00:08:54 afraid of the consequences and when it
00:08:52 00:08:56 comes to a soul-sucking job
00:08:54 00:08:58 most people work because they don't know
00:08:56 00:08:59 how to make money otherwise most people
00:08:58 00:09:01 are afraid to quit their jobs because
00:08:59 00:09:03 they don't have the confidence to
00:09:01 00:09:05 succeed on their own
00:09:03 00:09:07 sometimes people stay in a bad situation
00:09:05 00:09:08 out of obligation i have a friend who
00:09:07 00:09:10 helps run her family business even
00:09:08 00:09:12 though she hates it but she doesn't want
00:09:10 00:09:14 to disappoint her parents and she's
00:09:12 00:09:15 afraid of confrontation
00:09:14 00:09:17 i have another friend who runs a
00:09:15 00:09:19 business with a good friend but her
00:09:17 00:09:21 partner isn't pulling her weight and in
00:09:19 00:09:22 this case do you cut ties and risk
00:09:21 00:09:24 ruining the friendship
00:09:22 00:09:26 the best way to deal with situations
00:09:24 00:09:28 involving fear of the unknown is to
00:09:26 00:09:30 analyze all the possible outcomes
00:09:28 00:09:32 if you are scared of quitting your job
00:09:30 00:09:34 to start a business ask yourself what's
00:09:32 00:09:36 the worst that could happen if the
00:09:34 00:09:38 business completely failed then come up
00:09:36 00:09:40 with a backup plan so for example when
00:09:38 00:09:42 my wife and i started bumblebee linens
00:09:40 00:09:44 our backup plan was to simply go back to
00:09:42 00:09:46 work if our business failed when you
00:09:44 00:09:48 outline and create a backup plan for
00:09:46 00:09:49 every positive negative scenario it
00:09:48 00:09:51 makes your decision to move on
00:09:49 00:09:52 infinitely easier because it takes fear
00:09:51 00:09:54 out of the equation
00:09:52 00:09:55 so before you answer the question of
00:09:54 00:09:58 what's keeping you in your current
00:09:55 00:09:59 situation jot down all the possible
00:09:58 00:10:00 outcomes and come up with a plan of
00:09:59 00:10:03 action
00:10:00 00:10:04 then assign a number from 1 to 10 where
00:10:03 00:10:07 a 10 indicates that there are dire
00:10:04 00:10:09 consequences for quitting and a1
00:10:07 00:10:12 indicates that quitting isn't a big deal
00:10:09 00:10:14 question number 8 is it too late to
00:10:12 00:10:15 change your attitude now when it comes
00:10:14 00:10:18 to every situation in business and life
00:10:15 00:10:19 your attitude determines everything for
00:10:18 00:10:21 example when sales were non-existent
00:10:19 00:10:23 from my business in the early going i
00:10:21 00:10:25 could have reacted to my situation in
00:10:23 00:10:28 two completely different ways
00:10:25 00:10:30 it's game over man game over no one's
00:10:28 00:10:30 gonna buy these stupid hankies screw
00:10:30 00:10:33 this
00:10:30 00:10:35 or this sucks but i'm gaining many new
00:10:33 00:10:37 skills that will benefit other aspects
00:10:35 00:10:39 of my life even though the money is not
00:10:37 00:10:40 where i want to be yet i'm enjoying the
00:10:39 00:10:41 journey
00:10:40 00:10:42 now do you see the difference in
00:10:41 00:10:44 attitude
00:10:42 00:10:46 oftentimes we want to quit because our
00:10:44 00:10:48 mindset is not where it should be so if
00:10:46 00:10:50 you're angry or resentful towards your
00:10:48 00:10:52 job or your business you're effectively
00:10:50 00:10:53 giving up already you can no longer be
00:10:52 00:10:56 objective so before you make the
00:10:53 00:10:58 decision to give up try to enumerate all
00:10:56 00:11:00 the positives of staying in your current
00:10:58 00:11:02 situation sometimes seeing the positives
00:11:00 00:11:05 and the potential benefits written down
00:11:02 00:11:07 in a document can reframe your dilemma
00:11:05 00:11:08 in a completely different light so for
00:11:07 00:11:09 this question write down one of the
00:11:08 00:11:12 following statements
00:11:09 00:11:14 i'm analyzing my situation with a clear
00:11:12 00:11:16 and open mind or two i'm angry or
00:11:14 00:11:18 resentful with my situation and it will
00:11:16 00:11:19 be difficult to overcome
00:11:18 00:11:22 then assign a number from one to ten
00:11:19 00:11:24 where a one indicates that you're at max
00:11:22 00:11:26 anger or resentment now what do we do
00:11:24 00:11:27 with all these scores and everything
00:11:26 00:11:28 that we've written down now if you've
00:11:27 00:11:30 taken the time to think through all the
00:11:28 00:11:32 questions you probably already have the
00:11:30 00:11:34 answer that you seek but for engineers
00:11:32 00:11:36 such as myself i try to let the numbers
00:11:34 00:11:38 do all the toking so take the numbers
00:11:36 00:11:40 that you assign for all eight questions
00:11:38 00:11:43 that i just toked about and tally them
00:11:40 00:11:45 up now if your total is less than 20 you
00:11:43 00:11:47 got to get out of there now
00:11:45 00:11:49 if your number is between 20 and 39 you
00:11:47 00:11:50 most likely need to quit but delay
00:11:49 00:11:52 judgment for a couple of weeks to make
00:11:50 00:11:55 sure your feelings don't change if your
00:11:52 00:11:57 score is between 40 and 55 your
00:11:55 00:11:59 situation is mediocre not great not
00:11:57 00:12:01 horrible so it's a judgment call on your
00:11:59 00:12:03 part but in case you're asian and
00:12:01 00:12:06 reading this a 55 out of 80 is still a
00:12:03 00:12:08 failing grade i'd still probably quit if
00:12:06 00:12:10 your score is above 55 your situation
00:12:08 00:12:12 doesn't seem that bad stik it out and
00:12:10 00:12:13 see if you can get your score closer to
00:12:12 00:12:15 80.
00:12:13 00:12:16 now if your numbers still aren't
00:12:15 00:12:18 providing you with the answers that you
00:12:16 00:12:20 need you can assign weighting factors to
00:12:18 00:12:22 make certain questions worth more than
00:12:20 00:12:24 others so for example i value the health
00:12:22 00:12:27 of my family and my well-being above all
00:12:24 00:12:29 else so i always give more weight to
00:12:27 00:12:31 question number four now if your quit
00:12:29 00:12:33 score is between 40 and 55 and you have
00:12:31 00:12:34 no idea what to do here's my general
00:12:33 00:12:36 philosophy
00:12:34 00:12:37 do you want to go through life living at
00:12:36 00:12:39 50
00:12:37 00:12:41 and is 50 good enough for you
00:12:39 00:12:44 if you can see a legit path to raising
00:12:41 00:12:46 that 50 to 90 or more in your current
00:12:44 00:12:49 situation then you should stay suck it
00:12:46 00:12:50 up and do the work but if your situation
00:12:49 00:12:53 is already toxic then just get out of
00:12:50 00:12:54 there regardless the simple act of
00:12:53 00:12:56 asking yourself these questions and
00:12:54 00:12:58 writing everything down will help you
00:12:56 00:13:00 achieve clarity and in most cases
00:12:58 00:13:02 telling up the numbers won't be
00:13:00 00:13:04 necessary because you'll just know based
00:13:02 00:13:06 on your responses
00:13:04 00:13:08 but fear should never be a reason not to
00:13:06 00:13:11 move on because the worst thing that can
00:13:08 00:13:13 happen to you is spending another year
00:13:11 00:13:15 getting your soul sucked out of you and
00:13:13 00:13:17 the worst possible outcome is not giving
00:13:15 00:13:19 yourself the chance to realize your true
00:13:17 00:13:20 potential
00:13:19 00:13:22 hope you enjoyed this video now if you
00:13:20 00:13:24 like what you saw there's actually a lot
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