How I Become Friends With Celebrities & Billionaires At 18
Published on: December 4 2022 by Hayden Bowles
How I Become Friends With Celebrities & Billionaires At 18
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How I Become Friends With Celebrities & Billionaires At 18
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| 00:00:00 | 00:00:05 | well no that's the sauce you know what |
| 00:00:02 | 00:00:09 | is going on everyone we are here with |
| 00:00:05 | 00:00:12 | mr. finality okay and as I'm recording |
| 00:00:09 | 00:00:14 | this I just dropped the LA video from I |
| 00:00:12 | 00:00:15 | don't know exactly when you guys are |
| 00:00:14 | 00:00:17 | watching us maybe I'll try and get this |
| 00:00:15 | 00:00:19 | up the next day but I posted a vlog kind |
| 00:00:17 | 00:00:20 | of like a little video showing me in Los |
| 00:00:19 | 00:00:22 | Angeles I didn't get to film like most |
| 00:00:20 | 00:00:24 | of the cool stuff for obviously like in |
| 00:00:22 | 00:00:26 | meetings you know all the stuff that I |
| 00:00:24 | 00:00:29 | wish would be shown there's not really a |
| 00:00:26 | 00:00:31 | way to film that but a lot of people |
| 00:00:29 | 00:00:32 | keep asking how I form these connections |
| 00:00:31 | 00:00:35 | you know celebrities millionaires top |
| 00:00:32 | 00:00:36 | entrepreneurs even billionaires asking |
| 00:00:35 | 00:00:38 | about how to do that okay how do you |
| 00:00:36 | 00:00:39 | first get in those positions how do you |
| 00:00:38 | 00:00:41 | meet the people that will then introduce |
| 00:00:39 | 00:00:43 | you to those people that will then |
| 00:00:41 | 00:00:45 | introduce you to those people there is a |
| 00:00:43 | 00:00:47 | reason why Brian Ferrari is gonna be in |
| 00:00:45 | 00:00:50 | this video okay first of all he's trying |
| 00:00:47 | 00:00:53 | to eat healthy okay we get it you're |
| 00:00:50 | 00:00:55 | sick dude so he oh what is that lunch |
| 00:00:53 | 00:00:57 | meat yeah we got some bread up there man |
| 00:00:55 | 00:01:00 | reading lavish spent 50 bucks on |
| 00:00:57 | 00:01:03 | groceries like an adult yet today but um |
| 00:01:00 | 00:01:05 | yeah Brian over here is an amazing |
| 00:01:03 | 00:01:08 | networker okay I'm gonna let him go |
| 00:01:05 | 00:01:10 | through and explain a little bit about |
| 00:01:08 | 00:01:11 | what he does dream master Minds |
| 00:01:10 | 00:01:13 | everything behind the connections of |
| 00:01:11 | 00:01:15 | people because he is amazing when it |
| 00:01:13 | 00:01:17 | comes to knowing people connecting the |
| 00:01:15 | 00:01:18 | right people because as me and Billie |
| 00:01:17 | 00:01:21 | someone he introduced me to the other |
| 00:01:18 | 00:01:22 | day we're toking and this is something |
| 00:01:21 | 00:01:24 | I mentioned and brought up I'm like dude |
| 00:01:22 | 00:01:25 | meeting all these people is amazing like |
| 00:01:24 | 00:01:28 | I was in LA for four days I hadn't been |
| 00:01:25 | 00:01:29 | in LA in like probably two months and |
| 00:01:28 | 00:01:31 | you know hang out with all these people |
| 00:01:29 | 00:01:33 | who you know like big-ass house in the |
| 00:01:31 | 00:01:35 | Hills we're toking you know crazy stuff |
| 00:01:33 | 00:01:37 | and I'm like that's cool but you know |
| 00:01:35 | 00:01:38 | you're probably still gonna waste your |
| 00:01:37 | 00:01:40 | time like most of the people I've ever |
| 00:01:38 | 00:01:42 | been with just end up being a time |
| 00:01:40 | 00:01:45 | waster even if it's like a distant like |
| 00:01:42 | 00:01:47 | a distant acquaintance connection a lot |
| 00:01:45 | 00:01:48 | of things can waste your time that's why |
| 00:01:47 | 00:01:50 | I moved down here to the beach you know |
| 00:01:48 | 00:01:53 | it's not in LA it's a little bit further |
| 00:01:50 | 00:01:54 | away and I'm not gonna drive up and |
| 00:01:53 | 00:01:56 | nobody's gonna drive down unless it's a |
| 00:01:54 | 00:01:57 | priority so there's a lot of different |
| 00:01:56 | 00:01:58 | things with connections you know you |
| 00:01:57 | 00:02:00 | want to make sure you're not just |
| 00:01:58 | 00:02:02 | wasting your time or anything gotta |
| 00:02:00 | 00:02:05 | connect with the right people so that's |
| 00:02:02 | 00:02:06 | where Brian really came in clutch on |
| 00:02:05 | 00:02:09 | this trip to LA I'm gonna tok a little |
| 00:02:06 | 00:02:11 | bit about how I do it and then Brian |
| 00:02:09 | 00:02:13 | he does it okay so for me over the last |
| 00:02:11 | 00:02:16 | two years actually almost three when I |
| 00:02:13 | 00:02:17 | first started making money I started |
| 00:02:16 | 00:02:20 | traveling that was like my first thing |
| 00:02:17 | 00:02:21 | that I did you know it was a little bit |
| 00:02:20 | 00:02:23 | about the fact that I didn't like being |
| 00:02:21 | 00:02:25 | in Minnesota so I wanted to switch it up |
| 00:02:23 | 00:02:27 | and now that I could afford to do that I |
| 00:02:25 | 00:02:28 | did so I would be going back and forth |
| 00:02:27 | 00:02:30 | to people and this was the time when I |
| 00:02:28 | 00:02:32 | had no personal brand a personal brand |
| 00:02:30 | 00:02:35 | can be really really good credibility so |
| 00:02:32 | 00:02:36 | this is where I was you know traveling |
| 00:02:35 | 00:02:37 | meeting up with these people I would |
| 00:02:36 | 00:02:39 | meet up with a lot of them in person |
| 00:02:37 | 00:02:41 | tok a little bit back and forth on |
| 00:02:39 | 00:02:44 | Instagram you always have to get some |
| 00:02:41 | 00:02:46 | sort of leverage point so I don't know |
| 00:02:44 | 00:02:48 | what that is or will be for you |
| 00:02:46 | 00:02:50 | excuse me but for me that was owning |
| 00:02:48 | 00:02:51 | Instagram influencer pages so I would |
| 00:02:50 | 00:02:53 | meet people through that because its |
| 00:02:51 | 00:02:54 | credibility so I would just be meeting |
| 00:02:53 | 00:02:55 | with these entrepreneurs and then again |
| 00:02:54 | 00:02:57 | it's like a almost like one of those |
| 00:02:55 | 00:02:58 | tree branches you know they introduce |
| 00:02:57 | 00:03:00 | you to someone and then someone else and |
| 00:02:58 | 00:03:03 | someone else and when I was a kid you |
| 00:03:00 | 00:03:05 | know 16 and even 15 but 15 16 a lot at |
| 00:03:03 | 00:03:07 | 16 and 17 I was traveling and constantly |
| 00:03:05 | 00:03:10 | meeting these people like people that I |
| 00:03:07 | 00:03:12 | used to watch like Jared Garage Jeff and |
| 00:03:10 | 00:03:14 | everyone like it is crazy because I used |
| 00:03:12 | 00:03:16 | to watch their videos for a year now I |
| 00:03:14 | 00:03:17 | can FaceTime and would say what's up |
| 00:03:16 | 00:03:20 | [ __ ] like it doesn't matter you know |
| 00:03:17 | 00:03:21 | it's just he's the homie so it's really |
| 00:03:20 | 00:03:23 | crazy to see that like all these |
| 00:03:21 | 00:03:25 | entrepreneurs I saw when I was starting |
| 00:03:23 | 00:03:26 | my personal brand who now I'm just |
| 00:03:25 | 00:03:28 | hanging out with it even like massive |
| 00:03:26 | 00:03:31 | people in the influencer space you know |
| 00:03:28 | 00:03:32 | one with 65 million followers like it |
| 00:03:31 | 00:03:34 | all these but I'm not even gonna say who |
| 00:03:32 | 00:03:36 | cuz you know I didn't show it in the |
| 00:03:34 | 00:03:37 | vlog for a reason but a lot of people |
| 00:03:36 | 00:03:39 | you know who live at 1600 vine and |
| 00:03:37 | 00:03:41 | Hollywood and meeting with those people |
| 00:03:39 | 00:03:44 | it's because of credibility first of all |
| 00:03:41 | 00:03:45 | you can't just be some random kid who is |
| 00:03:44 | 00:03:48 | doing nothing and like go hang out with |
| 00:03:45 | 00:03:49 | Logan Paul or like you know be backstage |
| 00:03:48 | 00:03:51 | with Wiz Khalifa and all this stuff and |
| 00:03:49 | 00:03:53 | like again this is not to brag at all |
| 00:03:51 | 00:03:54 | I'm just trying to bring up the certain |
| 00:03:53 | 00:03:57 | pieces that I believe you have to have |
| 00:03:54 | 00:03:59 | in place for me a lot of it is just |
| 00:03:57 | 00:04:01 | direct credibility so people like Brian |
| 00:03:59 | 00:04:02 | who know people then toking me up you |
| 00:04:01 | 00:04:04 | know you have to provide some sort of |
| 00:04:02 | 00:04:06 | credibility especially if those people |
| 00:04:04 | 00:04:08 | are viewed as above you and this happens |
| 00:04:06 | 00:04:10 | a lot follower wise when they have like |
| 00:04:08 | 00:04:12 | kind of an ego because they got a big |
| 00:04:10 | 00:04:14 | audience so it's really interesting to |
| 00:04:12 | 00:04:16 | see that you have to like you know if |
| 00:04:14 | 00:04:17 | they don't know what you're doing and |
| 00:04:16 | 00:04:18 | you're not like impressive to them |
| 00:04:17 | 00:04:20 | they're not gonna like get you on that |
| 00:04:18 | 00:04:22 | friend level so everything's positioning |
| 00:04:20 | 00:04:24 | so for me you know I I do very |
| 00:04:22 | 00:04:25 | in the econ space a lot of the stuff I |
| 00:04:24 | 00:04:26 | do my age as well like I pull up in my |
| 00:04:25 | 00:04:28 | car |
| 00:04:26 | 00:04:30 | it's immediate credibility so if you |
| 00:04:28 | 00:04:31 | haven't really done anything you |
| 00:04:30 | 00:04:32 | shouldn't be worried about networking |
| 00:04:31 | 00:04:34 | because you have to go do something |
| 00:04:32 | 00:04:36 | first you're not gonna meet with those |
| 00:04:34 | 00:04:38 | people and while I was making money six |
| 00:04:36 | 00:04:39 | figures and moved right up into seven I |
| 00:04:38 | 00:04:41 | wasn't meeting the right you know I |
| 00:04:39 | 00:04:42 | wouldn't say the right people but like |
| 00:04:41 | 00:04:43 | you know I'm not connected to people |
| 00:04:42 | 00:04:45 | with hundreds of millions of dollars |
| 00:04:43 | 00:04:47 | billions of dollars like you know the |
| 00:04:45 | 00:04:49 | people you've never heard of and it's |
| 00:04:47 | 00:04:50 | really crazy to me that's just a |
| 00:04:49 | 00:04:51 | progression so you got to keep doing |
| 00:04:50 | 00:04:54 | your thing you have to have your own |
| 00:04:51 | 00:04:55 | stuff going something respectable before |
| 00:04:54 | 00:04:58 | you can actually start meeting those |
| 00:04:55 | 00:04:59 | people so for me a personal brand has |
| 00:04:58 | 00:05:01 | been huge just to meet a couple the |
| 00:04:59 | 00:05:04 | right people and then a tree branches |
| 00:05:01 | 00:05:05 | out so literally knowing like I wouldn't |
| 00:05:04 | 00:05:07 | say everyone but you know a lot of these |
| 00:05:05 | 00:05:09 | people it's absolutely amazing |
| 00:05:07 | 00:05:13 | so Brian if you want to get over in here |
| 00:05:09 | 00:05:17 | he owns coming he owns dream masterminds |
| 00:05:13 | 00:05:18 | so absolutely unreal company the vision |
| 00:05:17 | 00:05:20 | for that everything they're doing the |
| 00:05:18 | 00:05:21 | last of its crazy so imma let him |
| 00:05:20 | 00:05:25 | explain that but a lot of what he does |
| 00:05:21 | 00:05:26 | is connecting people the right people so |
| 00:05:25 | 00:05:27 | it's really crazy I'll let him you know |
| 00:05:26 | 00:05:29 | give it like a 30-second rundown on the |
| 00:05:27 | 00:05:31 | business but also about connecting |
| 00:05:29 | 00:05:33 | people because that's a lot of what he |
| 00:05:31 | 00:05:37 | does I'll stand up so it's not weird |
| 00:05:33 | 00:05:39 | yeah what's up guys real quick actually |
| 00:05:37 | 00:05:41 | that was a billionaire right now wants |
| 00:05:39 | 00:05:44 | me in New York look at this car |
| 00:05:41 | 00:05:47 | collections yeah I won't show it cuz I |
| 00:05:44 | 00:05:50 | always give away stuff yeah exactly what |
| 00:05:47 | 00:05:51 | how many followers next to none I'm |
| 00:05:50 | 00:05:52 | gonna have to go up to New York in like |
| 00:05:51 | 00:05:54 | two days |
| 00:05:52 | 00:05:55 | let's go up together cuz I got to go |
| 00:05:54 | 00:06:02 | somewhere I Network to it so absolutely |
| 00:05:55 | 00:06:04 | crazy to a person's apartment oh nope |
| 00:06:02 | 00:06:06 | hey guys my name's Brian ari I am CEO |
| 00:06:04 | 00:06:08 | and owner and founder I guess some dream |
| 00:06:06 | 00:06:11 | masterminds the true masterminds is an |
| 00:06:08 | 00:06:13 | experience based company all about |
| 00:06:11 | 00:06:15 | bringing people together in a fun and |
| 00:06:13 | 00:06:18 | creative way I was going to networking |
| 00:06:15 | 00:06:19 | events every single week um different |
| 00:06:18 | 00:06:21 | business events different conferences |
| 00:06:19 | 00:06:22 | and I just felt like a lot of the |
| 00:06:21 | 00:06:25 | relationships I was making weren't fully |
| 00:06:22 | 00:06:28 | genuine they weren't fully proactive in |
| 00:06:25 | 00:06:29 | a way everyone was there for their own |
| 00:06:28 | 00:06:30 | agenda everyone was |
| 00:06:29 | 00:06:31 | they're trying throw their business |
| 00:06:30 | 00:06:33 | cards at me and I was like I don't only |
| 00:06:31 | 00:06:34 | like this too much I want to build real |
| 00:06:33 | 00:06:36 | relationships and real friendships and |
| 00:06:34 | 00:06:38 | everyone's Pranita told me they were |
| 00:06:36 | 00:06:39 | like hey Brian like I just don't have |
| 00:06:38 | 00:06:41 | any friends who believe in me I don't |
| 00:06:39 | 00:06:44 | have any friends who are going for more |
| 00:06:41 | 00:06:47 | in life and then I knew from my dream my |
| 00:06:44 | 00:06:49 | experience Haydon does that number one |
| 00:06:47 | 00:06:50 | thing one of the number one things is |
| 00:06:49 | 00:06:52 | who you're around your inner fireman not |
| 00:06:50 | 00:06:54 | only where you are but who you are with |
| 00:06:52 | 00:06:56 | and when I started kind of putting |
| 00:06:54 | 00:06:58 | myself around positive people and people |
| 00:06:56 | 00:07:00 | who are higher than me it was an ego |
| 00:06:58 | 00:07:02 | check which was great humbled me but it |
| 00:07:00 | 00:07:03 | also just showed me how much more it |
| 00:07:02 | 00:07:05 | could be done |
| 00:07:03 | 00:07:07 | so I started believing in myself more so |
| 00:07:05 | 00:07:09 | another huge part of it too for me was |
| 00:07:07 | 00:07:11 | just seeing all these events and you |
| 00:07:09 | 00:07:12 | know just saying hey how can I make |
| 00:07:11 | 00:07:14 | these more fun so dream masterminds to |
| 00:07:12 | 00:07:16 | all around we do fun things like y'all |
| 00:07:14 | 00:07:19 | parties and beach parties and penthouse |
| 00:07:16 | 00:07:23 | parties while doing a lot of fun and |
| 00:07:19 | 00:07:25 | creative seminars so we bring the top |
| 00:07:23 | 00:07:27 | people in their industries so if we did |
| 00:07:25 | 00:07:30 | ecommerce we get people like it involves |
| 00:07:27 | 00:07:32 | and other tok people I'm Tom etc for |
| 00:07:30 | 00:07:33 | that dream masterminds event but it |
| 00:07:32 | 00:07:35 | wouldn't only be like a seminar B |
| 00:07:33 | 00:07:36 | seminar than the operate cetera or |
| 00:07:35 | 00:07:38 | people could really not work it's like |
| 00:07:36 | 00:07:40 | working on a vacation that's like kind |
| 00:07:38 | 00:07:42 | of what I think about it exactly exists |
| 00:07:40 | 00:07:43 | and as you already know we've toked |
| 00:07:42 | 00:07:45 | about this a lot of the relationships |
| 00:07:43 | 00:07:47 | when people start meeting other people |
| 00:07:45 | 00:07:48 | it's like oh how can we make more money |
| 00:07:47 | 00:07:50 | with each other it's immediately |
| 00:07:48 | 00:07:51 | business it's never like that actually |
| 00:07:50 | 00:07:53 | that's one thing he really pushed me |
| 00:07:51 | 00:07:55 | into I really like the whole thing if |
| 00:07:53 | 00:07:57 | you know form that genuine friendship |
| 00:07:55 | 00:07:58 | like how many people and I know this is |
| 00:07:57 | 00:07:59 | huge because I already know a lot of the |
| 00:07:58 | 00:08:01 | people I know you know probably way more |
| 00:07:59 | 00:08:03 | who are big in the space who you might |
| 00:08:01 | 00:08:05 | even watch on the internet who have no |
| 00:08:03 | 00:08:07 | actual friends like if they were to lose |
| 00:08:05 | 00:08:08 | everything nobody would be there you |
| 00:08:07 | 00:08:09 | know if they were to go into a |
| 00:08:08 | 00:08:11 | depression like I'm not going to tok |
| 00:08:09 | 00:08:13 | too much about that stuff but a lot of |
| 00:08:11 | 00:08:15 | people that you think like they're alone |
| 00:08:13 | 00:08:17 | they've been depressed they have they've |
| 00:08:15 | 00:08:18 | gone through hard stuff and that's a lot |
| 00:08:17 | 00:08:20 | of also what happens when you start |
| 00:08:18 | 00:08:21 | making money or get into the audience |
| 00:08:20 | 00:08:22 | there's a lot of different things so |
| 00:08:21 | 00:08:24 | it's definitely an interesting like |
| 00:08:22 | 00:08:26 | ecosystem that nobody seems to ever |
| 00:08:24 | 00:08:27 | think about that's what I really see no |
| 00:08:26 | 00:08:29 | it's huge and the thing is too is like |
| 00:08:27 | 00:08:30 | people like hated specially like and |
| 00:08:29 | 00:08:32 | there's different people in the field |
| 00:08:30 | 00:08:33 | like they're used to people asking them |
| 00:08:32 | 00:08:35 | for things they're used to people coming |
| 00:08:33 | 00:08:37 | out of them for things so if you go into |
| 00:08:35 | 00:08:38 | like hey man like nice to meet you how |
| 00:08:37 | 00:08:39 | can we do business |
| 00:08:38 | 00:08:41 | I've had this problem with myself where |
| 00:08:39 | 00:08:44 | I've introduced other people to each |
| 00:08:41 | 00:08:45 | other and they're immediately like we're |
| 00:08:44 | 00:08:47 | gonna do this and then it's like do you |
| 00:08:45 | 00:08:49 | like well you just see in your business |
| 00:08:47 | 00:08:50 | and you see the relationships that's |
| 00:08:49 | 00:08:52 | true friendships when you're really |
| 00:08:50 | 00:08:54 | there with or without the business being |
| 00:08:52 | 00:08:56 | involved those are usually the ones that |
| 00:08:54 | 00:08:58 | can flourish into amazing businesses and |
| 00:08:56 | 00:08:59 | vice versa sometimes you do meet people |
| 00:08:58 | 00:09:01 | fully off business and then they become |
| 00:08:59 | 00:09:03 | friendships but when you build the |
| 00:09:01 | 00:09:05 | foundation off of only finances |
| 00:09:03 | 00:09:07 | sometimes that relationship can die |
| 00:09:05 | 00:09:09 | because of five it does quick yeah cuz |
| 00:09:07 | 00:09:10 | that's the only actual attachment you |
| 00:09:09 | 00:09:11 | only care about each other because I'm |
| 00:09:10 | 00:09:12 | money yeah you're not really sorry |
| 00:09:11 | 00:09:14 | there's certain situations you know that |
| 00:09:12 | 00:09:16 | the one person that the audience who you |
| 00:09:14 | 00:09:18 | know the goal out of that is to then do |
| 00:09:16 | 00:09:19 | some business but also becoming friends |
| 00:09:18 | 00:09:20 | you know there's certain purposes |
| 00:09:19 | 00:09:22 | depending on what you guys are both |
| 00:09:20 | 00:09:24 | looking for out of it but if it's so |
| 00:09:22 | 00:09:26 | much one-sided you're never gonna get on |
| 00:09:24 | 00:09:28 | that level like for me I know you know |
| 00:09:26 | 00:09:30 | you've known Kasey Adams for like three |
| 00:09:28 | 00:09:31 | years like if you guys know like I've |
| 00:09:30 | 00:09:32 | known him for like a year and a half I |
| 00:09:31 | 00:09:34 | remember I was starting my personal |
| 00:09:32 | 00:09:36 | brand and I was making six figures doing |
| 00:09:34 | 00:09:38 | my own thing I'm like huh one day he's |
| 00:09:36 | 00:09:40 | gonna be my friend like it's so funny to |
| 00:09:38 | 00:09:42 | think about like one day that get like |
| 00:09:40 | 00:09:43 | he's gonna be the homie and it's just |
| 00:09:42 | 00:09:44 | really weird I think a lot of people |
| 00:09:43 | 00:09:47 | don't ever admit that like I'm willing |
| 00:09:44 | 00:09:49 | to admit that and share that and I |
| 00:09:47 | 00:09:50 | really want to transition this tune to |
| 00:09:49 | 00:09:52 | how you can actually start meeting these |
| 00:09:50 | 00:09:54 | people not so much what you do with them |
| 00:09:52 | 00:09:55 | sure yeah so I mean a huge part of it |
| 00:09:54 | 00:09:57 | too is the fact that you have to |
| 00:09:55 | 00:09:58 | remember how far you actually offer |
| 00:09:57 | 00:10:00 | these people all right so if you're |
| 00:09:58 | 00:10:04 | online you're looking at someone like |
| 00:10:00 | 00:10:05 | Casey or Hayden or it could be which by |
| 00:10:04 | 00:10:07 | the way we're at the bottom of the food |
| 00:10:05 | 00:10:09 | chain yeah yeah it could be Jay Paul it |
| 00:10:07 | 00:10:11 | could be anybody but when you look |
| 00:10:09 | 00:10:15 | around and you're like you know how do I |
| 00:10:11 | 00:10:17 | get from someone from Haven to Casey Jay |
| 00:10:15 | 00:10:20 | Paul to an a-list celebrity it's not |
| 00:10:17 | 00:10:23 | necessarily about you know how far you |
| 00:10:20 | 00:10:25 | actually are but earthstar it's actually |
| 00:10:23 | 00:10:27 | you're naturally not that far as you |
| 00:10:25 | 00:10:30 | think so for example like from Jay Paul |
| 00:10:27 | 00:10:31 | like I'm like one person away in a ton |
| 00:10:30 | 00:10:33 | of ways you know they mean it's a and |
| 00:10:31 | 00:10:34 | when we start understanding that it |
| 00:10:33 | 00:10:36 | starts to change the game cuz you're a |
| 00:10:34 | 00:10:37 | lot closer than you think the other part |
| 00:10:36 | 00:10:39 | of that too is one of the best tips I |
| 00:10:37 | 00:10:42 | was ever given by my friend Joshua |
| 00:10:39 | 00:10:45 | Joshua Erb that was network from the top |
| 00:10:42 | 00:10:46 | down a lot of people are always trying |
| 00:10:45 | 00:10:48 | now that you can't do it the other way |
| 00:10:46 | 00:10:49 | right but sometimes when you can meet |
| 00:10:48 | 00:10:50 | people who have a |
| 00:10:49 | 00:10:53 | higher authorities so you can meet an |
| 00:10:50 | 00:10:55 | investor you can meet a boss you can |
| 00:10:53 | 00:10:57 | meet you know someone who is above them |
| 00:10:55 | 00:10:59 | in a way or has done business with them |
| 00:10:57 | 00:10:59 | for example like if you want to meet |
| 00:10:59 | 00:11:01 | Grant Cardone |
| 00:10:59 | 00:11:03 | I would HIGHLY highly recommend you |
| 00:11:01 | 00:11:04 | network with someone like Bradley you |
| 00:11:03 | 00:11:06 | know to me because if you're trying to |
| 00:11:04 | 00:11:07 | go straight to Grant now that it can't |
| 00:11:06 | 00:11:09 | happen but you know that's just you |
| 00:11:07 | 00:11:10 | might just be a fan and that's another |
| 00:11:09 | 00:11:12 | huge thing other if they have an |
| 00:11:10 | 00:11:14 | audience versus not it can yeah exactly |
| 00:11:12 | 00:11:16 | a huge huge thing I heard the other day |
| 00:11:14 | 00:11:18 | was that when Michael Jordan would meet |
| 00:11:16 | 00:11:22 | people he would automatikally determine |
| 00:11:18 | 00:11:23 | you as fan or friend and Michael Jordan |
| 00:11:22 | 00:11:27 | did this does this now I mean you know |
| 00:11:23 | 00:11:28 | because he's alive he's alive what I |
| 00:11:27 | 00:11:30 | mean by that is like you know he's |
| 00:11:28 | 00:11:32 | living life you know very extroverted |
| 00:11:30 | 00:11:34 | Lee right now after his basketball |
| 00:11:32 | 00:11:37 | career so he's always many people and |
| 00:11:34 | 00:11:39 | one of his close friends said that he'll |
| 00:11:37 | 00:11:41 | either journey as a fan or a friend oh |
| 00:11:39 | 00:11:44 | there you've got one of the biggest ways |
| 00:11:41 | 00:11:46 | to discern that is are you gonna ask to |
| 00:11:44 | 00:11:47 | take a picture yeah that for me when |
| 00:11:46 | 00:11:49 | someone else has an audience like if you |
| 00:11:47 | 00:11:50 | come up and you want to take a picture |
| 00:11:49 | 00:11:52 | of someone you're immediately putting |
| 00:11:50 | 00:11:54 | yourself no matter what on at the fan |
| 00:11:52 | 00:11:55 | level yeah and as usually a huge thing |
| 00:11:54 | 00:11:56 | to actually coming up on my friend she's |
| 00:11:55 | 00:11:58 | a big influence or he has a couple |
| 00:11:56 | 00:12:00 | million followers and he actually called |
| 00:11:58 | 00:12:01 | me out on it one time later on he was |
| 00:12:00 | 00:12:03 | like yo man he's like you need to a |
| 00:12:01 | 00:12:05 | picture with me and stuff and we are |
| 00:12:03 | 00:12:06 | friends but it wasn't like I didn't take |
| 00:12:05 | 00:12:08 | a picture with him like it wasn't like |
| 00:12:06 | 00:12:10 | selfie mode it was like we were just out |
| 00:12:08 | 00:12:12 | and I took a video and I tagged him but |
| 00:12:10 | 00:12:14 | it was like the first time we hung out |
| 00:12:12 | 00:12:16 | and uh it's not like it wasn't even a |
| 00:12:14 | 00:12:17 | Ballack and it wasn't even like I was |
| 00:12:16 | 00:12:19 | trying to like chase clout or anything |
| 00:12:17 | 00:12:21 | but I was like I thought it was cool but |
| 00:12:19 | 00:12:22 | if you really believe in yourself and |
| 00:12:21 | 00:12:23 | have strong confidence if you do think |
| 00:12:22 | 00:12:25 | you're going to see them again and you |
| 00:12:23 | 00:12:27 | really believe that you're kind of build |
| 00:12:25 | 00:12:28 | a friendship you're gonna have another |
| 00:12:27 | 00:12:30 | chance and when you do it later on it |
| 00:12:28 | 00:12:32 | starts to make more sense because then |
| 00:12:30 | 00:12:33 | you're like okay cool like we hung out |
| 00:12:32 | 00:12:35 | like a bunch of times or we've hung out |
| 00:12:33 | 00:12:36 | a couple times like we're at dinner it's |
| 00:12:35 | 00:12:38 | normal for you to take a snap for the |
| 00:12:36 | 00:12:40 | food and tag someone but if you're like |
| 00:12:38 | 00:12:42 | hey man I just met you like you're five |
| 00:12:40 | 00:12:43 | minutes into a dinner with you know like |
| 00:12:42 | 00:12:44 | Jake Paul for an example and you're like |
| 00:12:43 | 00:12:46 | you know doing the boomerang like |
| 00:12:44 | 00:12:48 | tagging Hamill yeah to him it's like |
| 00:12:46 | 00:12:48 | okay well he's clearly you know I mean |
| 00:12:48 | 00:12:51 | wanted to you |
| 00:12:48 | 00:12:52 | my face and when you're not doing that |
| 00:12:51 | 00:12:54 | it's like oh like this guy's different |
| 00:12:52 | 00:12:55 | or he doesn't care about getting that |
| 00:12:54 | 00:12:57 | you know there's something else going on |
| 00:12:55 | 00:12:59 | so on the fact that like what you were |
| 00:12:57 | 00:13:01 | asking like how do you not work like you |
| 00:12:59 | 00:13:02 | know if she's thinking dm's are true but |
| 00:13:01 | 00:13:04 | you have to understand too like if |
| 00:13:02 | 00:13:05 | there's a difference between |
| 00:13:04 | 00:13:07 | perseverance and being annoying right |
| 00:13:05 | 00:13:09 | and we've learned this a lot I go I have |
| 00:13:07 | 00:13:11 | to watch like 10 acts and you know care |
| 00:13:09 | 00:13:12 | even though I just see I'm them like a |
| 00:13:11 | 00:13:14 | ton of times and I ain't if I saw |
| 00:13:12 | 00:13:15 | actually toked about this this weekend |
| 00:13:14 | 00:13:18 | in LA when we were sitting down he said |
| 00:13:15 | 00:13:21 | that he was like if you you know gym him |
| 00:13:18 | 00:13:22 | 50 times you gotta block you yeah and |
| 00:13:21 | 00:13:25 | the thing is like a lot of you were like |
| 00:13:22 | 00:13:27 | trying to be you know or certain person |
| 00:13:25 | 00:13:29 | entrepreneurs but in reality you have to |
| 00:13:27 | 00:13:31 | be a little smart about otherwise you |
| 00:13:29 | 00:13:32 | just look like honestly a fan yeah who |
| 00:13:31 | 00:13:33 | doesn't know what they're doing have a |
| 00:13:32 | 00:13:36 | little bit of humanism in there right |
| 00:13:33 | 00:13:37 | like be strategic here's one huge tip if |
| 00:13:36 | 00:13:40 | you really want to make an impact on |
| 00:13:37 | 00:13:42 | somebody send them a gift but don't make |
| 00:13:40 | 00:13:43 | you like hey I'm your fan that uh just |
| 00:13:42 | 00:13:45 | literally something like a fruit basket |
| 00:13:43 | 00:13:47 | thanking them Bradley and I have toked |
| 00:13:45 | 00:13:49 | a good amount now because of the fact |
| 00:13:47 | 00:13:51 | that like he did this contest and I just |
| 00:13:49 | 00:13:53 | got creative right like I just started |
| 00:13:51 | 00:13:54 | like sending him like these different |
| 00:13:53 | 00:13:56 | things but it wasn't in a fan way it was |
| 00:13:54 | 00:13:58 | more of like hey I could I was in |
| 00:13:56 | 00:14:00 | Connectikut I was post mating it where |
| 00:13:58 | 00:14:02 | he was in Vegas so um you know I would |
| 00:14:00 | 00:14:04 | like send him like I sent him one time |
| 00:14:02 | 00:14:06 | like a fruit basket and a pair of |
| 00:14:04 | 00:14:08 | weights and the pair of weights I hadn't |
| 00:14:06 | 00:14:10 | know that has a postman I haven't had a |
| 00:14:08 | 00:14:12 | call and he wrote it and then they |
| 00:14:10 | 00:14:14 | literally said um I'm trying to drop the |
| 00:14:12 | 00:14:15 | weight on the competition because we're |
| 00:14:14 | 00:14:17 | like doing this competition that he was |
| 00:14:15 | 00:14:19 | giving the grand prize that was insanely |
| 00:14:17 | 00:14:21 | creative another thing I heard was |
| 00:14:19 | 00:14:23 | someone you know mailed a shoe to John |
| 00:14:21 | 00:14:25 | Adams they mailed one shoe to him like |
| 00:14:23 | 00:14:28 | one shoe and the note said I'm just |
| 00:14:25 | 00:14:30 | trying to get my foot in the door yeah |
| 00:14:28 | 00:14:32 | catch your attention but if you damned |
| 00:14:30 | 00:14:34 | someone 15 times about hey man I want to |
| 00:14:32 | 00:14:36 | be a drop shipper or hey let's jump on a |
| 00:14:34 | 00:14:38 | call let me know in about 15 minutes or |
| 00:14:36 | 00:14:39 | for me you know yeah people related to |
| 00:14:38 | 00:14:40 | what you do for me and so I was gonna |
| 00:14:39 | 00:14:43 | look at my store let's get on a call |
| 00:14:40 | 00:14:44 | people trying to like it just take take |
| 00:14:43 | 00:14:46 | take and like a dozen yesterday we'll |
| 00:14:44 | 00:14:47 | try to provide value to you like if |
| 00:14:46 | 00:14:49 | someone if someone deems being like hey |
| 00:14:47 | 00:14:51 | man I want to come to jury masterminds |
| 00:14:49 | 00:14:53 | could I help you sell tikets could I |
| 00:14:51 | 00:14:55 | help promote to me that's like wow like |
| 00:14:53 | 00:14:57 | yeah of course people don't understand |
| 00:14:55 | 00:14:59 | and anyone who's had employed especially |
| 00:14:57 | 00:15:00 | in there seems like like if someone's |
| 00:14:59 | 00:15:02 | willing to offer free help like |
| 00:15:00 | 00:15:03 | and you business owner was like okay |
| 00:15:02 | 00:15:05 | like what's up like yeah sure why not |
| 00:15:03 | 00:15:06 | give them the chance you know the other |
| 00:15:05 | 00:15:07 | chance you also have to discern it |
| 00:15:06 | 00:15:09 | because a lot of the time when you're |
| 00:15:07 | 00:15:11 | bringing someone on it takes more time |
| 00:15:09 | 00:15:12 | for you yeah that's the thing so that's |
| 00:15:11 | 00:15:13 | why I give people all the time wanting |
| 00:15:12 | 00:15:14 | to do something for free |
| 00:15:13 | 00:15:16 | work for you for free if I ever don't |
| 00:15:14 | 00:15:18 | get back to you ignore you or say no |
| 00:15:16 | 00:15:19 | there's a reason for that I don't have |
| 00:15:18 | 00:15:21 | the time because that does take time for |
| 00:15:19 | 00:15:22 | me yeah so there's certain situations |
| 00:15:21 | 00:15:24 | where you wouldn't wouldn't yeah exactly |
| 00:15:22 | 00:15:27 | and I mean like also like the whole jab |
| 00:15:24 | 00:15:28 | jab jab mentality like what can you give |
| 00:15:27 | 00:15:29 | people you know anything that goes back |
| 00:15:28 | 00:15:31 | to the fruit basket it's like what could |
| 00:15:29 | 00:15:32 | you do for people can you give them |
| 00:15:31 | 00:15:33 | that's different because at the end of |
| 00:15:32 | 00:15:36 | the day it's like you might look at |
| 00:15:33 | 00:15:37 | someone like I don't know um Gary |
| 00:15:36 | 00:15:39 | Vaynerchuk gonna be like I can't really |
| 00:15:37 | 00:15:40 | give them anything but if you can like |
| 00:15:39 | 00:15:42 | help push his stuff that's just like an |
| 00:15:40 | 00:15:44 | example right or hey I guarantee you and |
| 00:15:42 | 00:15:46 | I even toked to him about this funny |
| 00:15:44 | 00:15:48 | thing I guarantee you if you shoot an |
| 00:15:46 | 00:15:50 | insane testimonial a dope video |
| 00:15:48 | 00:15:52 | testimonial about you taking one of his |
| 00:15:50 | 00:15:53 | courses or something learning from him |
| 00:15:52 | 00:15:55 | and you post on your page and you tagged |
| 00:15:53 | 00:15:57 | eating and he sends it to you and you |
| 00:15:55 | 00:15:59 | see you send it to him and he sees that |
| 00:15:57 | 00:16:01 | he can get back to you I gotta go to ask |
| 00:15:59 | 00:16:04 | him like if you legitimately go after it |
| 00:16:01 | 00:16:05 | because if it's legitimate yeah like you |
| 00:16:04 | 00:16:06 | know there's a lot of people who have |
| 00:16:05 | 00:16:08 | like made so much money off what I'm |
| 00:16:06 | 00:16:10 | doing so if someone posts that like |
| 00:16:08 | 00:16:12 | that's like yeah that's amazing doing |
| 00:16:10 | 00:16:13 | something for him and it's like you know |
| 00:16:12 | 00:16:15 | where you charge on how much you charge |
| 00:16:13 | 00:16:16 | for one-on-one consulting or to get I |
| 00:16:15 | 00:16:19 | rarely even do it I declined most people |
| 00:16:16 | 00:16:21 | yes on my own stuff but I guarantee you |
| 00:16:19 | 00:16:23 | if someone out there went and pushed it |
| 00:16:21 | 00:16:25 | and pushed you know what he's done for |
| 00:16:23 | 00:16:27 | you and the testimonial and he ends up |
| 00:16:25 | 00:16:28 | selling or you know you get full |
| 00:16:27 | 00:16:29 | speaking right cause ative lee of |
| 00:16:28 | 00:16:31 | something yeah but let's say like what I |
| 00:16:29 | 00:16:33 | would do is I'm not in Econ right I'm |
| 00:16:31 | 00:16:35 | building three masterminds but if I was |
| 00:16:33 | 00:16:36 | what I would do is I would take a huge |
| 00:16:35 | 00:16:39 | course I would do it as far as I can and |
| 00:16:36 | 00:16:41 | if I got whatever it was all I was |
| 00:16:39 | 00:16:43 | trying to get three friends to also get |
| 00:16:41 | 00:16:44 | that course just because I understand |
| 00:16:43 | 00:16:46 | like to hate and it's like all right |
| 00:16:44 | 00:16:48 | cooling you provided me value I want to |
| 00:16:46 | 00:16:50 | provide you more value I want to grow |
| 00:16:48 | 00:16:53 | your vision could you've helped me grow |
| 00:16:50 | 00:16:55 | mine like that so |
| 00:16:53 | 00:16:56 | yeah but there's different layers to |
| 00:16:55 | 00:16:57 | networking that I see like everything |
| 00:16:56 | 00:16:59 | you know getting in front of those |
| 00:16:57 | 00:17:01 | people and then immediately being able |
| 00:16:59 | 00:17:02 | to position yourself on the same level |
| 00:17:01 | 00:17:03 | yeah that's like everything there's so |
| 00:17:02 | 00:17:05 | many little I've I bet you guys picked |
| 00:17:03 | 00:17:07 | up on so many little tips and tricks in |
| 00:17:05 | 00:17:08 | this I've never seen this toked about |
| 00:17:07 | 00:17:09 | anywhere |
| 00:17:08 | 00:17:11 | like this is exactly what would have |
| 00:17:09 | 00:17:13 | helped me so much about two years ago |
| 00:17:11 | 00:17:15 | yeah another huge thing too is like for |
| 00:17:13 | 00:17:17 | you guys is where are you hanging out |
| 00:17:15 | 00:17:19 | right like you know there is a lot of |
| 00:17:17 | 00:17:20 | different places you can network one of |
| 00:17:19 | 00:17:23 | the biggest places I've networked has |
| 00:17:20 | 00:17:24 | been like clubs but I don't drink and I |
| 00:17:23 | 00:17:26 | wouldn't recommend that if you drink |
| 00:17:24 | 00:17:28 | because then it's like you really make a |
| 00:17:26 | 00:17:29 | bad impersonation on someone but like |
| 00:17:28 | 00:17:30 | I've been a lot of people in a lot of |
| 00:17:29 | 00:17:32 | wild places you know you don't have to |
| 00:17:30 | 00:17:34 | be a member of this or you know in this |
| 00:17:32 | 00:17:36 | group to get there you just have to put |
| 00:17:34 | 00:17:38 | yourself out there and make it a point |
| 00:17:36 | 00:17:39 | to network but here's one huge tip I |
| 00:17:38 | 00:17:41 | want to give when you network with |
| 00:17:39 | 00:17:44 | people when you network with people |
| 00:17:41 | 00:17:46 | please please please go at it from the |
| 00:17:44 | 00:17:48 | front perspective because I meet people |
| 00:17:46 | 00:17:51 | every day and I'm not big on social at |
| 00:17:48 | 00:17:52 | all but I get DMS all the time that I |
| 00:17:51 | 00:17:54 | just don't respond to not because I |
| 00:17:52 | 00:17:56 | think I'm better but it's just some |
| 00:17:54 | 00:17:58 | people the way they come at it is just |
| 00:17:56 | 00:17:59 | like ridiculous it's wrong like yeah |
| 00:17:58 | 00:18:02 | they're like hey man like can you make |
| 00:17:59 | 00:18:03 | me money or hey man like can you give me |
| 00:18:02 | 00:18:05 | money or yesterday I got one hey can you |
| 00:18:03 | 00:18:07 | help me escape my nine-to-five I'm like |
| 00:18:05 | 00:18:09 | yeah it's like it's a baby just be real |
| 00:18:07 | 00:18:10 | just be like hey man like I see what |
| 00:18:09 | 00:18:12 | you're doing an actual look into it |
| 00:18:10 | 00:18:15 | researching and learning about the |
| 00:18:12 | 00:18:16 | person is huge go sit down and say okay |
| 00:18:15 | 00:18:18 | what are they actually doing where were |
| 00:18:16 | 00:18:20 | they a year ago and you can do that all |
| 00:18:18 | 00:18:22 | on IG scroll up scroll back |
| 00:18:20 | 00:18:24 | Haiden if you want to scroll back I know |
| 00:18:22 | 00:18:25 | if you have any up there but I'd be like |
| 00:18:24 | 00:18:27 | oh my gosh she's just snowboard or oh my |
| 00:18:25 | 00:18:30 | gosh this or that or whatever it's back |
| 00:18:27 | 00:18:31 | there or you like to travel even things |
| 00:18:30 | 00:18:33 | like our current oh you've been to Bali |
| 00:18:31 | 00:18:35 | all I've been about whatever you know |
| 00:18:33 | 00:18:36 | find a connecting some sort of way to |
| 00:18:35 | 00:18:38 | relay exactly find out relating |
| 00:18:36 | 00:18:40 | connecting point and be a friend but |
| 00:18:38 | 00:18:41 | don't also don't go into you know with |
| 00:18:40 | 00:18:43 | the mindset of I'm doing this so I can |
| 00:18:41 | 00:18:45 | get this going with no expectation of |
| 00:18:43 | 00:18:46 | return yeah like oh let me let me like |
| 00:18:45 | 00:18:48 | do this so that then you know you can |
| 00:18:46 | 00:18:49 | teach me dropship exactly exactly I |
| 00:18:48 | 00:18:52 | don't think I've because I can see |
| 00:18:49 | 00:18:54 | through that I can see immediately there |
| 00:18:52 | 00:18:55 | anything that people do like for an |
| 00:18:54 | 00:18:57 | example I used to have a Facebook group |
| 00:18:55 | 00:18:58 | this is kind of unrelated but it makes |
| 00:18:57 | 00:19:00 | sense and it was on affiliate marketing |
| 00:18:58 | 00:19:02 | like I was helping just for free teach |
| 00:19:00 | 00:19:03 | people inside of a group and people |
| 00:19:02 | 00:19:05 | would indirectly try to promote their |
| 00:19:03 | 00:19:06 | affiliate offer trying to get people to |
| 00:19:05 | 00:19:08 | DM them yeah thinking I can't see |
| 00:19:06 | 00:19:09 | exactly what their true intentions are |
| 00:19:08 | 00:19:13 | about what they're writing yeah |
| 00:19:09 | 00:19:14 | the dumbest thing to like if you're like |
| 00:19:13 | 00:19:16 | if you're genuinely friends with people |
| 00:19:14 | 00:19:17 | like you can like they'll be there to |
| 00:19:16 | 00:19:18 | help you you don't even like I think |
| 00:19:17 | 00:19:21 | I've been friends with |
| 00:19:18 | 00:19:23 | for what two years I mean they're asked |
| 00:19:21 | 00:19:24 | him like two or three questions about |
| 00:19:23 | 00:19:27 | anything ecommerce maybe and that's all |
| 00:19:24 | 00:19:29 | been like and last like day or two but |
| 00:19:27 | 00:19:31 | it's like now it's like if I ask and |
| 00:19:29 | 00:19:32 | it's not like I'm you know I didn't |
| 00:19:31 | 00:19:34 | build it to your relationship to try to |
| 00:19:32 | 00:19:36 | get secrets of econ it was like well I'm |
| 00:19:34 | 00:19:37 | like we're friends and it's like if you |
| 00:19:36 | 00:19:38 | ask me hey man like I'm gonna throw an |
| 00:19:37 | 00:19:40 | event I can you help me with that I'd be |
| 00:19:38 | 00:19:41 | like yeah and we discussed that because |
| 00:19:40 | 00:19:43 | I was trying to get a really big house |
| 00:19:41 | 00:19:44 | in order to do that yeah and you find |
| 00:19:43 | 00:19:47 | possibility and that would also help him |
| 00:19:44 | 00:19:48 | yeah exactly these a collaboration point |
| 00:19:47 | 00:19:51 | so you don't need to go to your way but |
| 00:19:48 | 00:19:53 | just be genuine be authentik be real and |
| 00:19:51 | 00:19:55 | just you know be a good person and I |
| 00:19:53 | 00:19:56 | mean it sounds so simplistik but |
| 00:19:55 | 00:19:59 | sometimes simple advice is the best |
| 00:19:56 | 00:20:00 | advice it is I hope you guys I really |
| 00:19:59 | 00:20:01 | hope that helped because that is |
| 00:20:00 | 00:20:03 | directly advice that would have changed |
| 00:20:01 | 00:20:07 | everything for me yeah yeah make sure to |
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| 00:20:08 | 00:20:13 | looks like Brian's Ferrari he has a |
| 00:20:10 | 00:20:14 | fryer and last name is actually Ferrari |
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